Questions for the ladies! (and men!)

[chococat]

Which is the most affective if you're trying to attract an alpha/dominant/high status male?

Hair:

Long hair put up (say in a loose bun) vs.
long hair down.

Toenails:

Pink polish
vs.
red polish.

I don't polish my nails but I do take good care of them. Toenails are a different story, though. ;)


I want to know which is more attractive from a biological standpoint!

[Surreal]

It everso depends on the specific taste, perversions of the male seeked. Hair up or down is a personal preference. Some guys might find pink cute and sexy while others find it hot and sexy, both sexy but in different ways.

What makes this guy 'high status'? Give LOTS of details about him and yourself.

[chococat]

He's a surgeon! He's very outgoing and confident. He obviously has a very high IQ (I think he *knows* it, too.) Physically he's tall and mostly fit. He's also a bit older than I am (16 years.)

Myself: I am 25 years old, small in stature, and generally a little bit shy. Anything else you'd like to know?

[chococat]

I have heard that men generally like to see the back of a woman's neck.

[belgareth]

Hair depends on the woman. Generally I prefer long hair whether curly or straight. But some women look better with a short haircut. I don't mean those masculine jobs I've seen on a few but a nice cut.

Hands are important, the nails don't need to be polished but I like a woman to take good care of her hands.

Though you didn't ask I'll comment on make up and perfumes. Too many women seem to think more is better with make up. It should be used to highlight your natural looks, not to obscure or hide them. I prefer the fresh scrubbed look over heavy make up. The same with perfumes. A light sccent can be nice but I've met a few who could have used their perfume for a fumigant.

[chococat]

I have had a few compliments when I have worn my hair up in the past (from boyfriends.) I am guessing that I have a nice profile.

Perfume: I don't wear much at all, though I *do* wear it. I always ask someone else if I have on too much.

Makeup: Same thing! I agree that a lot of women overdo it. Generally guys say to me, "You don't wear makeup, do you?" which I interpret to mean that I'm doing it right.

[belgareth]

I have had a few compliments when I have worn my hair up in the past (from boyfriends.) I am guessing that I have a nice profile.
A sexy neck. It may sound funny but some women do have it.

Perfume: I don't wear much at all, though I *do* wear it. I always ask someone else if I have on too much..There are few things more sexual to me than the smell of a clean woman. Most perfumes hide that.

Makeup: Same thing! I agree that a lot of women overdo it. Generally guys say to me, "You don't wear makeup, do you?" which I interpret to mean that I'm doing it right.Yup.

[Surreal]

When It comes to IQ his is proberly no less than 130. 100 is average. He might just be proud of his ability to reason.

[bjf]

Red over pink. Long hair is wonderful, and hair worn up is sexy too. Just wear it both ways.

[Numanoid]

I have heard that men generally like to see the back of a woman's neck.And cleavage

[Silver]

I think the hair depends on the situation.I have a wealth of hair. Let loose it reaches all the way down to my hips. It's straight and fairly well behaved. I have gotten lots of compliments on my hair. Guys find it sexy and mysterious, and they just can't stop touching it.:) I'd say that touchable hair is a really big plus.

On the other hand, the neck is definitely one of a woman's sexiest features. I mean, what is sexier than a diamond nestled in the hollow of a woman's neck? (guys, that's a hint...BUY US DIAMONDS:))

Are you looking at a date situation? Or is this a guy you see at work everyday? If it's the former, it depends on where you're going and so forth. If it's the latter, I'd say switch it up, do half and half...both will be very sexy if done right.

As for the nails...I have no idea what guys like. Boys?

~Silver

[belgareth]

IMO, Diamonds or pearls look best on darker skinned ladies (contrast).
My girlfriend has thick, curly red hair and pale skin. A few weeks ago she wore a black gown with some emerald earings and necklace with her hair down, it was stunning. I couldn't stop staring at her.

Long nails are fine so long as they aren't extreme. The really important part is how well she takes care of them. Nice soft hands and well tended nails just make her more attractive.

[Newbie gal]

Now, let's comment on the mones she should put on.

[chococat]

Are you looking at a date situation? Or is this a guy you see at work everyday? If it's the former, it depends on where you're going and so forth. If it's the latter, I'd say switch it up, do half and half...both will be very sexy if done right.
I see this guy at work every so often. I guess I should switch it up and do half and half... The toenail polish, it's not a dire situation right now as I imagine no one will see my feet anytime soon. However, I always like to keep them done.

I figure this is somewhat based on personality. That is, the guy who is really into the siren type female is going to like red better whereas the guy who is into the innocent type will like pink. However, I trust the opinions of the men here and I'd like to hear more preferences.

Mones: I've been using EW alone covered up by a nice swipe of Monyette Paris (A white floral with a vanilla and incense base. I swear this is an aphrodisiac, men *love* it. Go to your nearest Sephora and take a whiff!)

[Elvis]

It everso depends on the specific tasteOnly constant here.

Personally, I prefer hair down, swishing sexily around the face/partly obscuring the eyes for that mysterious vibe. Hair up I believe portrays a sense of ridgitity, i.e. the hair doesn't move much so, what does this mean??? I'm not sure but, it's not for me. Pink on the toenails. For me, it's more fun. It says...I'm cute, sexy and fun. To me, red says...I'm serious, brazen and less fun. My personal opinion. :wave:

[bjf]

Except for Elvis here :), 99.9 percent of guys will not care about your red or pink toenails, and most of normal day to day clothes will not be noticed. We look at your face (that includes hair), and your figure. Innocent guys and siren guys are guys and we are all attracted to the same thing. Our differences of attraction come from childhood when our brain was developing, not our personality. We're not chicks.

And I am sure Elvis wouldn't turn down a girl with red toenails. :) Just worry about getting your hair, makeup right and don't get out of shape to the point where it is a turn off.

[Friendly1]

Which is the most affective if you're trying to attract an alpha/dominant/high status male?

Hair:

Long hair put up (say in a loose bun) vs.
long hair down.
Long hair down, or clipped back behind the head (I'm starting to really like those butterfly clips or whatever they are -- a lot of women look sexy when they reach back and adjust their hairclips).

Toenails:

Pink polish
vs.
red polish.

I don't polish my nails but I do take good care of them. Toenails are a different story, though. ;)
Most men probably don't even notice the toenails. If I see a woman's toenails away from the beach or swimming pool, I am most likely to think she doesn't know when NOT to wear sandals.

That said, red is the hotter, sexier color.

[Friendly1]

Perfume: I don't wear much at all, though I *do* wear it. I always ask someone else if I have on too much.
You might give Chloe a try. It's an older perfume and younger women don't seem to wear it much. Another one to try would be Intuition.

[Elvis]

And I am sure Elvis wouldn't turn down a girl with red toenailsI'll have you know I wouldn't touch such a scarlet hussy with a ten foot b...well, ummm, I suppose...maybe...uhhh...damn, ok, ok, jeez bjf, how do you do it? I do succumb now and then to the rouge.

[chococat]

You might give Chloe a try. It's an older perfume and younger women don't seem to wear it much. Another one to try would be Intuition.
Chloe, Chloe Perfume for Women by Lagerfeld launched in 1975. Chloe perfume for women is the result of the following top fragrance Notes: coconut, bergamot and peach. The middle notes are: tuberose, ylang-ylang and musk and the base of the fragrance is: sandalwood amber and cedar.

Wow! This is loaded with sexy, aphrodisiac notes. I'm not familiar with Chloe, but it sounds like a winner.