kappakai
12-29-2004, 01:53 PM
Good afternoon ladies:
I have an ex-girlfriend, and maybe to be girlfriend again if I end up on the right coast, who has a little sexual problem and I was wondering if you could provide a little insight into it. She has problems getting wet, and consequently, attaining orgasm. She says it has been years. I believe it may be an emotional issue; she has brought up the fact that she went through some issue, though I know neither the extent nor the nature of it. I don't think she has totally come to grips with it, nor completely addressed it. She won't tell me what it is either, but I believe it is up to her to reveal when the time comes.
Anyway, libido isn't that much of an issue. She tells me she gets horny. I think it's more the physical issue. I'd love for her to be able to enjoy sex as much as I do. I had a girlfriend before her who was multi-orgasmic and could squirt, and I loved (as did she) the way that felt. I'd love to be able to do the same for this girl. There are numerous herbs, tonics, remedies for guys with sexual issues (yohimbe, tongkat ali, porn, etc.) What about for the ladies?
I understand COMPLETELY the need to address what emotional issue might be lurking in the background. I agree that emotional well-being is intricately woven with a woman's sexual well-being. However, until she is willing to open up and share, or address that issue with a professional, I don't see that happening. In the meantime, is there anything, IF anything, you think could be done?
I appreciate the help and input. Look forward to your replies.
Kai
I have an ex-girlfriend, and maybe to be girlfriend again if I end up on the right coast, who has a little sexual problem and I was wondering if you could provide a little insight into it. She has problems getting wet, and consequently, attaining orgasm. She says it has been years. I believe it may be an emotional issue; she has brought up the fact that she went through some issue, though I know neither the extent nor the nature of it. I don't think she has totally come to grips with it, nor completely addressed it. She won't tell me what it is either, but I believe it is up to her to reveal when the time comes.
Anyway, libido isn't that much of an issue. She tells me she gets horny. I think it's more the physical issue. I'd love for her to be able to enjoy sex as much as I do. I had a girlfriend before her who was multi-orgasmic and could squirt, and I loved (as did she) the way that felt. I'd love to be able to do the same for this girl. There are numerous herbs, tonics, remedies for guys with sexual issues (yohimbe, tongkat ali, porn, etc.) What about for the ladies?
I understand COMPLETELY the need to address what emotional issue might be lurking in the background. I agree that emotional well-being is intricately woven with a woman's sexual well-being. However, until she is willing to open up and share, or address that issue with a professional, I don't see that happening. In the meantime, is there anything, IF anything, you think could be done?
I appreciate the help and input. Look forward to your replies.
Kai