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[cowgirltlp]

:wave: Hello all. I am new to the mones scene and decided to give it a try because of a particular man. Actually he is my daughter's ob/gyn. I have been reading posts on here for 3 days now and think I pick the right mone to start with, but do still have doubts. First of all, the ob/gyn has given little subtle hints (I think) that he is interested in me. We are about the same age (mid 30's) and are both divorced. My kids keep telling me to ask him out, but I am not that courages ( I am terrified of rejection) :trout:. I am also very skeptical of trying things like mones. I did take a small dive and purchased the gel packs of SoE/w. Did I make the right (safe) choice to begin with? And if so, should I wear it by itself or with my favorite perfume or lotion? This ob/gyn stays in the room with us on every visit talking about other things (not just my daughter's pregnancy) until a nurse comes in an gets him or he gets a page or phone call. I do not want to over-step my boundary and scare him off, but I am getting very antsie waiting on him to make a move. I don't want to "stink" the women in the office and from what I have read (some) from some women on this forum they find the SoE/w to have an offensive smell :sick: . We go back to see him this afternoon at 4pm so I do not have anything except the SoE/w to play with this time, but if need be, I can get some other things from Love Scent to mix for next time. BTW my daughter is only 16 that is why I go with her to every visit. If anyone has any suggestions for today and for the next visit please feel free to let me know. :angel: P.S all the nurses in the hospital and his office are also interested in him so I need the "edge" over all them. :twisted:

[countesszero]

Hello cowgirltlp and welcome to the forum. I think SOE is a very safe choice for you. Use only half of the gel pack along with you favorite cologne or perfume for a cover. Make sure to smile and be confident in yourself. Goodluck:welcome:

The Countess

[cowgirltlp]

Hello countesszero, most of the posts I have read have been from you so I was hoping you would reply to my message. Do you have any suggestions for the next time I see him? I want more than just idle chatter (we do that at every visit) I want him to feel as though I can not wait any longer to ask me out (if in deed he is interested) :think:

[NaughtieGirl]

Hey Cowgirl! :welcome: It's always so exciting when more women join in! Welcome.

I too believe you made a good choice. I personally love the smell of the SOE/w gel packs but I'm not too fond of the roll-on. So it's just up to you. Put it on and then if you don't care too much for the smell you can spray your perfume right over it.

Hmmm... to take things up a notch next time? The PCC (copulins) rol-on smells good. One of my favorites is PI/w and others have reported good results with it as well. PI/w is alot of NOL and a little bit of copulins. It doesn't smell of much at all.

You could also just start teasing him. Verbally I mean. :lol: I understand what you mean though, I'm the same way.

[countesszero]

Hi cowgirltlp, I would just make sure that you look your best on that day. Also it couldn't hurt to start asking questions about him for example "what made you decide to be a doctor". You could also say things like "You must be very busy being a doctor and all. How do you manage to get a decent meal." Depending on his response maybe you can invite him either out for dinner or to your place for a home cooked meal. Don't be afraid to flirt a little but I think that with the SOE you wont have to do too much. These are just suggestions. Make eye contact and smile.

The Countess

[NaughtieGirl]

Eye-contact and smiling! :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Excellent advice! Now why didn't I think of that myself! :POKE:

[cowgirltlp]

Countesszero and NaughtieGirl,
Thank you both for your replies. I will take both of your suggestions and apply them together. I will get back with you both on how things turn out. There is one slight problem, with inviting him to my place. You see, I am currently living with someone (to make a long story short), there is nothing left in this relationship, he told me the other day that he doesn't even know if he wants a relationship with me anymore and quite frankly I feel the same way, but having a daughter that is due on July 16 and a son that graduates Saturday and going to school myself (not working at the time being) I can not afford to get back out on my own just yet (however I think if things go well with the doc. I would be willing to move back in with my parents and get a part time job). I start back to college in the fall and will be entering my actual nursing program next fall. Sorry I rambled on, but thought I needed to elaborate on my situations.

[countesszero]

OK then forget about dinner at your place. Go ahead and invite him out to dinner. Or take it a step further and invite him out to a club. This way he can see you in action with some hot club clothes on.

Have you realized that you have something in common with the good doctor. Your going to be a nurse. Use that to your advantage when you talk to him. Maybe he could help to get you a part time job in his office also. Lay on the charm and go for it.

The Countess

[belgareth]

Stroke his ego a bit. Tell him you'd like his opinion about the medical field, what to focus on and all that stuff. Get him talking then bemoan the fact that you have so little time during office hours and would just love to learn more. Nothing like major hints! Open the door wide!

[cowgirltlp]

WOW thanx for all the suggestions and believe me I will implement them all. :smite: I just hope my SOE/w shows up today so that I can give that a whirl as well (if not I will have to wait until next visit) :think: Will keep you all posted on any changes.

[countesszero]

Please let us know how it goes.

[cowgirltlp]

Welp, the mail just ran and my SOE/w did not come in today so I won't be able to try it out this trip. :frustrate Maybe next time and hopefull by then I will have ordered and received my PCC and try them both at the same time. Who knows :frustrate I am so disappointed now, was wanting so bad to try it out today. oh well, next time.

[countesszero]

Have patience. You can still be a little more flirty when you see him. Start giving him some compliments and praise. You know stroke his ego. Prepare him for later when you receive your mones.

The Countess

[cowgirltlp]

Have patience. You can still be a little more flirty when you see him. Start giving him some compliments and praise. You know stroke his ego. Prepare him for later when you receive your mones.

The Countess
(follow up) went to appointment without mones, but all still went well. I caught the doc several times staring at me even when he was talking to my daughter. :wub: Next appointment is on June 8, should ahve mones by then and will give them a whirl and see if things pick up a little. Will let you all know.:wub:

[Phan]

The funny thing about rejection is that it's never as bad as you think it will be. At worst you'll get a polite no. What's far worse is regretting that you never took the chance. Just ask him out! This has a number of advantages to it:

He may feel that it's not professional to ask out a patient (or the mother of a patient.) However, if you make the move, this isn't an issue.

He may be shy. It may be that he won't make the first move.

Does he know that you are living with someone from something you or your daughter has said? If so, he may be concerned that there is still something there between you and this man. If you ask him out, that might reassure him that that's not the case.

And, most importantly...guys so rarely get asked out! It's usually the men that do the asking. It's a tremendous ego boost for the man and a much stronger signal of interest when the woman makes the first move.

Next time you are there, after the appointment is over and he's leaving step out after him (leaving your daughter behind) and ask him to dinner, drinks, coffee...whatever suits you. Then, tell us how the date goes.

[cowgirltlp]

The funny thing about rejection is that it's never as bad as you think it will be. At worst you'll get a polite no. What's far worse is regretting that you never took the chance. Just ask him out! This has a number of advantages to it:

He may feel that it's not professional to ask out a patient (or the mother of a patient.) However, if you make the move, this isn't an issue.

He may be shy. It may be that he won't make the first move.

Does he know that you are living with someone from something you or your daughter has said? If so, he may be concerned that there is still something there between you and this man. If you ask him out, that might reassure him that that's not the case.

And, most importantly...guys so rarely get asked out! It's usually the men that do the asking. It's a tremendous ego boost for the man and a much stronger signal of interest when the woman makes the first move.

Next time you are there, after the appointment is over and he's leaving step out after him (leaving your daughter behind) and ask him to dinner, drinks, coffee...whatever suits you. Then, tell us how the date goes.
I am :frustrate trying to get the courage up to do just that. I know my daughter nor I have said anything about me "living" with this other guy because my kids want me to hook up with him as much as I do... :smite: but I am not sure that my cousin (who works at the hospital) hasn't said something to him. :sad: At first she is the one who wanted me to "hook up" with the doctor but then for some reason or another, when we (my daughter and I ) told her that he was showing sublte signs of interest in me, she changed her mind and said that she didn't think we would be good together. :blink: :sad: When I asked why she said "because he said he wants a slender woman." She is very very over weight (around 250 pounds) and I told her "so, he has already made the comment about me being slender, so I know he does not think I am to big.?" :cheers: I think she is just jealous because herself was attracted to him until he made that comment about bigger women.:nono: But she is very much married with a three year old son.:nono:
To clarify, the way it got brought up with me being slender is because he was talking to my daughter about getting enough calcium. He looked at me and asked me if I was getting enough calcium as well. When I asked him why he said "because you are a prime candidate for osteoporosis." I said "oh thanks alot." :sad: and then he said "no, I mean because you are a very slender, white female and they are the most likely to acquire osteoporosis." I know that is not much of a come-on line (if it was even one at all....:frustrate :blink: ) Hard to tell with a dr. if they are just saying what comes natural with their profession or if they are actually trying to "come-on" to you....:frustrate . These are the types of signs I keep getting and why I am soooooo confused....:frustrate . Not to mention the other things I have posted that has happened. Other signs I may be misinterpreting are such things as..... when he is talking to my daughter, I catch him looking (more like staring) at me. CONFUSED: he is doing that because she is only 16 years old? or is he interested?. The reason I am confused on this one is because there are times he talks to her as though she is grown. :frustrate
Why is life sooooo complicated? Men say women are complicated but they are too....:twisted:
Just to let you all know.... I am 36 years old. I have long blond hair (goes down to about the middle of my back---and is straight), brown eyes, 5ft1in and weigh about 128. I have 3 kids (17-boy, 16-girl, and 14-boy) and most important of all about to be a FIRST TIME GRANDMOTHER! :cheers: I am going to college and will be starting my actual nursing program in the fall of 2006! :cheers: . I am working on getting my basics out of the way right now.:frustrate anyway girl, thanks for your advice.

[countesszero]

Hi. Based on your description of yourself. Your a cutey pie. Work with what you have. Have confidence in yourself. And don't let things get too complicated. I know that's easier said then done but Relationships are suppose to be fun. If you like this Doctor guy just trust your instincts and go get him. Ask him if he has a girlfriend. There's nothing wrong with asking questions.

He's probably looking at you because he can't believe your old enough to have a daughter that age. I'm 38 and my son is 20. I still get the looks and the comments about how young I look. Also IMHO men go for women with long hair. I'd put some mones in your hair as well.BTW have you received your mones yet. Keep us all posted.

The Countess

[belgareth]

Also IMHO men go for women with long hair.
The Countess
Some women don't look right with long hair but they are few and far between. Most women should grow their hair out.

[Mtnjim]

I am :frustrate trying to get the courage up to do just that. I know my daughter nor I have said anything about me "living" with this other guy because my kids want me to hook up with him as much as I do... :smite: but I am not sure that my cousin (who works at the hospital) hasn't said something to him. :sad: At first she is the one who wanted me to "hook up" with the doctor but then for some reason or another, when we (my daughter and I ) told her that he was showing sublte signs of interest in me, she changed her mind and said that she didn't think we would be good together. :blink: :sad: When I asked why she said "because he said he wants a slender woman." She is very very over weight (around 250 pounds) and I told her "so, he has already made the comment about me being slender, so I know he does not think I am to big.?" :cheers: I think she is just jealous because herself was attracted to him until he made that comment about bigger women.:nono: But she is very much married with a three year old son.:nono:
To clarify, the way it got brought up with me being slender is because he was talking to my daughter about getting enough calcium. He looked at me and asked me if I was getting enough calcium as well. When I asked him why he said "because you are a prime candidate for osteoporosis." I said "oh thanks alot." :sad: and then he said "no, I mean because you are a very slender, white female and they are the most likely to acquire osteoporosis." I know that is not much of a come-on line (if it was even one at all....:frustrate :blink: ) Hard to tell with a dr. if they are just saying what comes natural with their profession or if they are actually trying to "come-on" to you....:frustrate . These are the types of signs I keep getting and why I am soooooo confused....:frustrate . Not to mention the other things I have posted that has happened. Other signs I may be misinterpreting are such things as..... when he is talking to my daughter, I catch him looking (more like staring) at me. CONFUSED: he is doing that because she is only 16 years old? or is he interested?. The reason I am confused on this one is because there are times he talks to her as though she is grown. :frustrate
Why is life sooooo complicated? Men say women are complicated but they are too....:twisted:
Just to let you all know.... I am 36 years old. I have long blond hair (goes down to about the middle of my back---and is straight), brown eyes, 5ft1in and weigh about 128. I have 3 kids (17-boy, 16-girl, and 14-boy) and most important of all about to be a FIRST TIME GRANDMOTHER! :cheers: I am going to college and will be starting my actual nursing program in the fall of 2006! :cheers: . I am working on getting my basics out of the way right now.:frustrate anyway girl, thanks for your advice.

Ladies,
If you ever wondered what guys go through, here is a perfect woman's description. So if we ever seem a little confusing or hesitant... now you understand.

[countesszero]

Some women don't look right with long hair but they are few and far between. Most women should grow their hair out.
I'm with you there Belgareth. My hair is down my back and I wouldnt think about cutting it. I get so many complements on it and I think it looks sexy. Your right some women may not look good with long hair but I can't name any.

[belgareth]

I'm with you there Belgareth. My hair is down my back and I wouldnt think about cutting it. I get so many complements on it and I think it looks sexy. Your right some women may not look good with long hair but I can't name any.
One girl I dated in college had short hair and look incredibly sexy that way. Few and far between. Wood elf's hair is dark red, thick and curly. It looks like it only reaches her shoulderblades when it's dry. When it's wet it nearly reaches her waist. I like to play with it and often brush it out for her.

[cowgirltlp]

Hi. Based on your description of yourself. Your a cutey pie. Work with what you have. Have confidence in yourself. And don't let things get too complicated. I know that's easier said then done but Relationships are suppose to be fun. If you like this Doctor guy just trust your instincts and go get him. Ask him if he has a girlfriend. There's nothing wrong with asking questions.

He's probably looking at you because he can't believe your old enough to have a daughter that age. I'm 38 and my son is 20. I still get the looks and the comments about how young I look. Also IMHO men go for women with long hair. I'd put some mones in your hair as well.BTW have you received your mones yet. Keep us all posted.

The Countess


Yes, I received my mones today. My son (who graduated Sunday afternoon) wanted me to take him and his g/f to my bank and cash his checks he had received for graduation. After we got the checks cashed his g/f told him to ask me if I would go with them shopping. He NEVER wants anyone to go with them ANYWHERE they go. Don't know if it had anything to do with the mones or if they just wanted me to spend some quality time with them now that they are headed into the "adult world" no matter, I love spending time with all three of my kiddos any chance I get. :angel: It makes me know that they are not too big for me yet and not ashamed of me:rofl: :box:

[cowgirltlp]

I'm with you there Belgareth. My hair is down my back and I wouldnt think about cutting it. I get so many complements on it and I think it looks sexy. Your right some women may not look good with long hair but I can't name any.

I wouldn't think of cutting my hair either. Mainly because when I wear my cowboy hat it wouldn't look good short. I get hit on a lot when I wear it, but I wouldn't think of wearing to the dr. office :lol:

[cowgirltlp]

BTW have you received your mones yet. Keep us all posted.

The Countess[/QUOTE]
another funny story that happened today. We (my son, his gf and I) were in a pawn shop and my son asked to look at a knife and the guy that helped him just kept following me around asking me if I wanted to look at anything. I told him several times I wasn't looking to buy anything that I was just in there with my son and his gf. Mones? or not? :think: who cares? :think: I liked it. :cheers: :smite: Will keep ya'll posted on how the next appointment goes with the dr. Next Thursday. But we do start lamaze class this Thursday, that should be interesting :smite:

[countesszero]

Hi cowgirltlp. Those sound like hits to me. Keep us posted on how things go for you and the Doctor. BTW what mones are you using (SOE & or TE or both) Good luck.

The Countess

[cowgirltlp]

Hi cowgirltlp. Those sound like hits to me. Keep us posted on how things go for you and the Doctor. BTW what mones are you using (SOE & or TE or both) Good luck.

The Countess
Hello again countess, I used the SOE/w and sprayed a little of my cucumber melon body spray (from Bath and Body Works) on top to make sure if asked what I was wearing I could honestly say "cumber melon body spray" and not be lieing... :lol:
Today I tried the SOE/w with some Vanilla Musk lotion over the top and went shopping to two different places and didn't notice anything. :sad: I don't know if 1. Wasn't around anyone for very long 2. Didn't pay any attention or 3. Just not a good mixture. :think: I think I will try the cucumber melon again and see what happens. I am going to give that mixture a try tomorrow night at my daughter's lamaze class. Do you think that is bad? :twisted: Anyway, till next time

[cowgirltlp]

Hello cowgirltlp and welcome to the forum. I think SOE is a very safe choice for you. Use only half of the gel pack along with you favorite cologne or perfume for a cover. Make sure to smile and be confident in yourself. Goodluck:welcome:

The Countess
Countess I have a question. You said to use only half of the gel pack with my favorite scent. But once I put just a dab on both wrists and behind my ears I could smell it and was afraid it would be too much if I used the whole 1/2 pack. :blink: Do you really think 1/2 a pack is not too much? :type: I mean the smell is a decent (actually smells good by itself to me) but I want to make sure I don't od :sick: Have you ever tried the SOE/w by itself (no other mones and no cover spray) in that amount? And if so, did it get good results?:think: . Because if so, that may be the reason my "hits" were small, because I only used a few dabs. Probably 1/4 of the pack each time.:think:

[countesszero]

Hi there. If your not comfortable with using half the pack of SOE then use less. Using half works for me. I know what you mean about the smell. I love it too. It's a clean scent IMO. I think you'll be ok using half and the smell will go away after awhile.

Yes I've use SOE alone and with no cover and have gotten ok results from my husband and others. Nothing sexual but friendly hits. I started getting sexual hits when I used both SOE and TE together. 1/4 of TE.

The Countess

[cowgirltlp]

Hi there. If your not comfortable with using half the pack of SOE then use less. Using half works for me. I know what you mean about the smell. I love it too. It's a clean scent IMO. I think you'll be ok using half and the smell will go away after awhile.

Yes I've use SOE alone and with no cover and have gotten ok results from my husband and others. Nothing sexual but friendly hits. I started getting sexual hits when I used both SOE and TE together. 1/4 of TE.

The Countess
Thank you sooooo much. I think I will order the TE today and hope it comes in by next Thursday.:twisted:

[countesszero]

Yes if you order now you should receive it by Thursday. Good luck and keep us posted.

[cowgirltlp]

Welp, I did get my phones last Thursday and tried the SOE with Edge and seem to get flirted with by the Doc but really couldn't tell that it was anymore than before. She had another dr. appointment Monday and I had mixed some TE with Lavender w/androstenol. Still couldn't really tell anymore than before the mones. He did tell my daughter not to go into labor this weekend and she said "ooooooook" and then he looked at me and said "I was thinking about going to the lake this weekend." and smiled. I don't know if he was hinting or just being informative. He get a funny look on his face when I mentioned I had been divorced for 14 years and he said "oh, really?" Not sure if anything was meant by that either. This is what I have right now. 1 bottle of TE one bottle of Lavendar w/androstenol (came in the sample pack), Gel packs of TE, SOE for women, Scent of Eros unisex, and Alter Ego for women. Any combination suggestions that may boost my edge with the dr. more? I am running out of time. My daughter will be 36 weeks this Saturday!!

[Mtnjim]

"I am running out of time. My daughter will be 36 weeks this Saturday!!"

And my "friend's" daughter is 43--you have more time than you think, as long as you don't "give up".

Sounds like he's interested, perhaps the "Divorced" comment will provide the incentive. Perhaps he is being careful, or is shy?

EDIT:
Duh I thought you meant age until I noticed the "weeks"--Ignore the first comment!! The second still goes!!:hammer:

[cowgirltlp]

"I am running out of time. My daughter will be 36 weeks this Saturday!!"

And my "friend's" daughter is 43--you have more time than you think, as long as you don't "give up".

Sounds like he's interested, perhaps the "Divorced" comment will provide the incentive. Perhaps he is being careful, or is shy?

EDIT:
Duh I thought you meant age until I noticed the "weeks"--Ignore the first comment!! The second still goes!!:hammer:

LOL that's ok, I guess it did sound kinda confusing. To clarify myself..... my daughter is 36 weeks pregnant and in approximately 4 weeks we should have our baby here.... Running out of time to see the DOC!! :trout:

[NaughtieGirl]

LOL that's ok, I guess it did sound kinda confusing. To clarify myself..... my daughter is 36 weeks pregnant and in approximately 4 weeks we should have our baby here.... Running out of time to see the DOC!! :trout:

As far as the perfect mix is concerned, no-one can really help you. Our chemistries and the chemistries of the recipient are so vastly different, that there is no fool-proof formula. I would experiment like crazy. Not just on the days that you have doctor's visits, but on any and all occasions. I keep a log. I *try* to be methodical about it. Log circumstances, Qty and product applied, I later add comments etc. You might start to see a pattern.

Didn't you once mention in a different thread that he was going on and on about his horses? Perfect opportunity! I hope you like horses! If you're scared of them I can give you a couple of tips on how to handle them. Point is, start asking him a guezillion questions about his horses. It will provide him with the perfect opportunity to ask you if you would like to see them. Much easier for him to do that rather than to invite you on a date. It certainly would be a huge step in the right direction if he did that!

Charmed did make an excellent point about him needing to be extrememly careful about getting involved with patients or the legal guardian of a minor patient. So you have some time left to lay the groundwork. I'd speculate if he does make a move, it will be right around the time your daughter switches her visits to pediatrician visits with the baby.

[cowgirltlp]

Didn't you once mention in a different thread that he was going on and on about his horses? Perfect opportunity! I hope you like horses! If you're scared of them I can give you a couple of tips on how to handle them. Point is, start asking him a guezillion questions about his horses. It will provide him with the perfect opportunity to ask you if you would like to see them. Much easier for him to do that rather than to invite you on a date. It certainly would be a huge step in the right direction if he did that!

Yes, I know a lot about horses.... I use to barrel race in playdays and even won a belt buckle at one! WOO HOO. We did have two (one mine and one my son's) but my ex-fiance (one of the a-holes) sold the both of them.:smite:


Charmed did make an excellent point about him needing to be extrememly careful about getting involved with patients or the legal guardian of a minor patient. So you have some time left to lay the groundwork. I'd speculate if he does make a move, it will be right around the time your daughter switches her visits to pediatrician visits with the baby.[/QUOTE]

[NaughtieGirl]

Yes, I know a lot about horses.... I use to barrel race in playdays and even won a belt buckle at one! WOO HOO. We did have two (one mine and one my son's) but my ex-fiance (one of the a-holes) sold the both of them.:smite: [QUOTE]

Well there you go! It's perfect! It'll be even easier for you two to talk! You can tell him how much you miss your horses! :thumbsup:

[cowgirltlp]

Welp, I tried my own mixture out on Monday and it seemed to have went over well with the DOC!:angel: . My daughter's appointment was at 9:30 and we did not get called back until 10:20, BUT we stayed in the room (with the Dr.) until after 11 (and this was just a simple "check in") The actual exam only lasted about 5 minutes. The rest was idle chatter.
Now, for the GOOD part. He felt the baby's head (on the outside of her belly) He then looked at me and said "Do you want to feel the baby's head?" and of course I said "yes". I went over to the examining table and he told me "Just put your hand on mine, like this." I put my hand in front of his and kinda gave it a squeeze (not right) LOL so he said "No like this honey" and he took my hand an placed it in the right place and moved it from side to side and said "like that hun." Maybe he was just being nice but to be able to feel my grandson's head while the man I want to get with is actually the one showing me how it was just toooooooo much... :lovestruc :box:. He looked at my daughter and said "your just aiming to have this baby on July 4th aren't you? You know you could have him anytime now. But if you are planning on having him on the 4th let me know now, because if you're not then I am going to go the lake that day, but if you are then I will not go." Once again, maybe I am making more out of this than what is actually there, but no harm in wishing thinking. :angel:

My mixture was: some B&BW (warm vanilla sugar, SOE, AE, and Lavender w/Androstenol. I can not remember the exact amounts of each. But I mixed them all together in a container and rubbed it on my arms, neck and behing my ears. I am not sure if this was the reason or what, but something DID happen and I LIKED IT!!! :twisted: Anyone else have any new "hit" stories? Tell all... Welp, maybe not all. He did say he was planning on moving his practice out of this area in about 6 months. So I think Monday (at the next appointment) I am going to ask him if he is also moving from where he lives. If he says yes then I am going to say "Welp, dang, now I can't sneak over and ride your horses while you're at work." and if he says no then I will say "good, I can still sneak over and ride your horses while you're at work." Does that sound too corney? I am wanting to 1. break the ice and 2. open the door for him to make the (actual) first move and invite me over (if he is truly interested in me. My kids think I should just ask him out, but I am afraid if he turned me down then I would be too embarrassed to go back to his office and then when my daughter goes into labor I think it would make things akward for all three of us. :sad: Why are men so confusing? :blink:

[InternationalPlayboy]

Why are men so confusing? :blink:

I thought it was the other way around! :think:

[cowgirltlp]

I thought it was the other way around! :think:


Oh I totally agree, women are CRAZY :wub: But at least everyone (welp, maybe not everyone) but at least most people expect the man to ask the woman out. But if a woman (especially one my age) asks a man out then some guys would find offense in it and even if he was interested in her before she may have just blown it by taking the initiative. :trout: . How are we, as women, suppose to know which men like it or don't like it when asked out by a woman. Several men would think if the woman is asking him out then she is either desperate or slutty. :trout:

[belgareth]

That's probably more a reflection of the man's attitude towards women than anything else. If he already respects women he isn't as likely to jump to a negative conclussion, where if he has a low regard for women already it is more likely too. So, use his behavoir around women as a guage for it.

[cowgirltlp]

That's probably more a reflection of the man's attitude towards women than anything else. If he already respects women he isn't as likely to jump to a negative conclussion, where if he has a low regard for women already it is more likely too. So, use his behavoir around women as a guage for it.

Thanks belgareth, I may just do that with my Dr. "friend". :smite: