Duh, those are standards
relationship-questions. If the girl brings them up out of nowhere, consider it MORE than a clue.
Yoel
Hi,
Sorry for
writting a thread that is not really regarding to pheromones.
There are certain signs i noticed with girls into
my area, when they are willing to go into a relationship or falling in love.
Here is what I noticed :
a) figuring
out if you have a gf
if you say there no,
then she asks
b) if you still see your old gf
c) if you still think of
your old gf
d) how long you are alone
e) what would happen if your old gf would suddently be willing to go back to
you, or trying to start another time
f) if you know other girls, that you are interessted into
g) if you have an
intimate relationship with an other girl (not a gf, but just sex)
I think some kind of this questions is to
check out the situation, to make sure the girl is not getting hurted, when going deeper.
Together with a lot of
compliments and the usual body language, I consider girls to be in love or at least ready to work on a
relationship.
What is your opinion on that?
-private
Duh, those are standards
relationship-questions. If the girl brings them up out of nowhere, consider it MORE than a clue.
Yoel
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I am attuned to the questions
girls ask me.
If they ask me ANYTHING relating to girlfreinds I know she has an interest in me. Even when they
ask specific questions relating to me directly. As A guy I am not embarased to ask girls/coworkers about other
girls we have interaction with together. I play it straight. If I work with a new girl I would like to know first I
find if she has a BF. It is hard to become freinds with certian girls with BFs. (makes sense, depends on personality
mostly) Most girls I talk to about other girls give me a wealth of info.
For example. I worked with this new
girl once. She liked me I just knew it. But what gave it completly away was when she ask a coworker what my age is.
I am 22 and she is 16. I thought she was my age but o well.
I know this is not what you are getting at but If I
have a interest in a girl I tell her so. The worst she can say is that she has a BF. Come back with a nice joke
showing her no biggie and your not embarresd. (alpha)
-S-
"The whole world must learn of our peaceful ways, by force!"
surreal yes showing that alpha "oh
well" NEXT behaviour by make a joke of it is useful to avoid looking like a love sick sap - of course when that is
the way you think naturally and just do it like i do well i guess its not a factor.
But i was a shall i say
lovesick loser many years ago.
Originally Posted by Watcher
I am still a luvsick LUzEr..... trying real hard to
get over that. Just cant figure it out yet I have a few good ideas.
-s
"The whole world must learn of our peaceful ways, by force!"
Here this says not that much, if justOriginally Posted by Surreal
that question is asked. Oftenly girls try to find for their friends boyfriends ... so the question if someone is
into a fixed relation is quite normal here. It is sometimes even done the first thing after saying hello, crazy huh
? :-)
But if she keeps on asking more about your relationsships and private live, then you have a hit very
likely.
Oh wait now. IF the girl is already
your friend then you could interpret those questions as a offer of help like you're saying.
BUT if you are just
starting to know each other and she's interested in that, then she wants the answer for herself assuredly
Yoel
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well you have to watch out for the body language :-)Originally Posted by Yoel
Then you can usually differ if
a girl wants to recommend you to another girl, or if she is interessted herself.
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I'm always for body language
But come on, how often do you get approached by girls that after ten minutes of knowing you go "say, have
you got a girlfriend? I'll introduce you to a hot blonde or two!"
Moreover, if you just assume she's
interested, you can reply "are you hitting on me?" with a semi-serious look and then the fun begins
Yoel
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Your post is relevant to
attraction, so no need to apologise.
-- relationship interest, yes.
-- love, not necessarily.
DrSmellThis (creator of P H E R O S)
Sheesh, those questions aren't
"signs of love." Many of them are pretty standard fare between friends, male or female. Falling in love is something
that takes months, even years. I meet lots women at school and gigs and one of the first questions they ask is
whether or not I'm married or have a GF. And this is after only knowing them a few minutes. So they can't be
falling in love yet, puppy or otherwise. Maybe it's possible romantic or sexual interest or maybe they're just
being friendly.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
Love is a lot more....
deeper... and it takes quite a while to develop. Usually you start out liking somebody before you hit that falling
in love phase.
Actually, there areOriginally Posted by Yoel
periods where that happens to me quite a bit.
True enough.Moreover, if you just assume she's interested, you can
reply "are you hitting on me?" with a semi-serious look and then the fun begins
Originally Posted by Gegogi
Or just being nosey, in a typical female way.
Best thing to do; is
answer in a vague and joking manner. Keep an aura of mystery about you. Then the fun really begins.
YES!!!! the whole dont answer her questions thing worksOriginally Posted by tounge
the VERY best. It drive them CRAZY!!!!!
"The whole world must learn of our peaceful ways, by force!"
I agree with DST and others...it
does NOT mean love. It means "I maybe sorta kinda I don't know might be interested in you."
If you just met a
girl today, and she asks you, chances are she's interested in you. If she met you a little while ago, but not too
long, there is also the possibility that she's asking for someone else. She may have a girl friend who's into
you and asked her to scope you out. If you've known her for a while, well but not really well, the previous
possibilities still exist, but on top of them there is also the possibility that she wants to help you get a girl.
The possibilities are kind of cumulative, see?
But usually, if you just met her, then yeah, she's into you.
A response could be ? do you have
a girlfirend ? my answer ? why ? her answer just interested ? my answer why ? cause im just interested ? my answer -
how interested ? - her answer a) oh just forget about it then b) cause my friend over there wants to know c) im
really interested and i wanna fuck ya *in a half joking half serious manner* my answer why (to c) am i that fuckable
her answer - get lost ya loser or well lets go find out.
wishful thinking?Originally Posted by Watcher
"The whole world must learn of our peaceful ways, by force!"
I know that love takes mostly years, and I fully agree with you.Originally Posted by Gegogi
But I
already catched up 2 gf's through that methode ... so somehow it must work. And everytime i meet that girl and
looked into her eyes i could clearly see that she is having this rosa glasses on ...
I must admit, I am not living
in America, and as far as I understood the way things work out there are a bit different. Example : I would never go
into a Sauna with swimsuite!, and it is a mixed sauna .... so you are with girls into a sauna and nacked .... in
Canada & America impossible, and it shows somehow that things are more closed there.
I am living in the south of
Europe. - So lots of sun, and open people. - Might be easier to approach a heart :-)
-private
Lol surreel that wsa meant as a
bit of sacasim lol - not likley to happen in real life.
Note it was a joke.
You need a woman's opinion.
Here are the questions, not necessarily asked by the 'girl' but could be from the 'girl's' girl friends.
Questions will be asked tactfully over a few conversations. I did that for my girl friend just a couple of months
ago.
are you seeing someone
are you gay - if a person is very eligible but not dating, that's an important one to
ask
when did you break up with the last gf and why
how long have you been with the last gf - we want to know
average length of relationship
That's all we need to know.
Are you gay?Originally Posted by Newbie gal
Is that a tactful question? If he's a bit insecure that will crush him, poor guy.
The last two - downright
indiscreet. "None of your business" pops in my head as a response. The guy will be left wondering what was that
about, no matter how he replies.
Yoel
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I definitely agree with Yoel on
that...going through that questioning regime could confuse and turn off even the most fluent men in "woman-speak."
Yea, I agree to. I wouldn't feel
like someone would have the right to be digging into my history like that. And the are you gay question is the most
insulting question a straight guy could ever be asked, and would cause him to dislike whoever was asking it.
Never been asked if I was gay.Originally Posted by Newbie gal
However, in addition to the questions above, I have been asked if I have children, if I want children, how many
children, how important is family to me, where is my family, how often do I see my family, have I been married, do I
travel, what do I do for fun, and (oh yes) what do I do for a living.
These questions are so standard, so
automatic, and sometimes so repeated (by the same girls -- I guess they don't believe the answers I give them the
first two or three times) that I could almost set my watch by them.
I seriously doubt that.Originally Posted by bjf
But digging into a man's history, as you put it, is one of the
many ways women filter men out of their worlds. And that is exactly what they are doing. We come blustering in
with our hormone-driven agendas, and they figure out which ones are welcome to stay and maybe get to know them a
little better and which ones have to go.
Those are goodOriginally Posted by Friendly1
questions. Good questions show genuine interest in what you do and what you like to do, and in your dreams and
desires.
They do not inquire about your past like the FBI.
Yoel
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In America, that is exactly what mostOriginally Posted by Yoel
women do. Unless they meet the guy in high school (in which case there is a whole slew of OTHER questions they ask),
they put him through the ringer before he advances far.
Unless they're just looking for booty.
Women ask
questions when they want or are thinking about the possibility of a relationship. I haven't had too many questions
from women who wanted anything else.
And what mightOriginally Posted by Friendly1
those questions be?
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