In my 20+ years
of married life I learned one or two things about dealing with women and keeping an active sex life. Some I learned
through my own stupid mistakes, some I learned through watching other couples make stupid mistakes.
One guy a
while back said that when he wants sex he rolls over from watching the TV in bed and asks his wife if she wants to
fool around. That doesn't work to well.
We all get into a rut, our jobs and school and the kids and so on. We
forget who and why we married. All the fun and play goes out of our relationships, there's no more romance and
seduction. Us macho males may not want or need it but women most certainly do. Remember who you married and why. You
are not married to the kids, the kids are a result but should not be allowed to come between the parents.
The
best sex I have now and had when I was married was when I started the seduction in the morning and subtly kept at it
all day. By time we could do anything she would be so wound up she was ready to explode. Do little things like bring
her a cup of coffee when she wakes up and maybe rub her shoulder. After she gets out of the shower offer to rub
lotion on her back for her then do a good job of it. While she is doing housework periodically come up behind her,
kiss her neck a couple times then walk away. Nothing overtly sexual but right on the edge of it, get her to think
about you. Put your arms around her for a couple seconds then walk off. Keep teasing her with it all day. At the end
of the day make sure you are well showered, apply some mones and keep up the game. It helps that I took the time to
attend a class on massage and have learned where my girlfriend most likes her back rubbed. We keep a bottle of sweet
almond oil on the headboard for just that reason.
I've been attacked in the garage, the kitchen and the
bathroom playing this game. You have to judge if she is receptive and don't expect it to work every time but as she
gets accoustomed to the game she starts to play it too. Try it, I think you'll be pleased with the results.
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