Please?
I really
need some opinions regarding this.
Could my mone mix have turned her off while she is
more turned on by my own
natural mones which I can't smell?
Thanks very much for your time and opinions, it's appreciated.
As you know I'm seeing a coach I guess if you will
to make sure I stay on top of
my time management
for work and school.
And for the past several months she's been definitely
giving me
signals physical and verbal that she's interested.
All this was without using pheromones. She'd make it an
effort
to tell me who she was hanging out with and that she was single.
But still didn't make it easy for me when
I made a move of offering her
to go to an event.
I noticed that during the holidays while I was wearing the NPA
&
Chikara mix, that she every time we'd meet still flirt and find a little way
of touching me. And then that one
day of telling me she wasn't attracted
to me (which many of you think is a lie).
Well today I wore no
phermones and she did not bring up her
(28yrs old) "supposed" 40yr old boyfriend once. I noticed she reacted a
little more positive with me and felt closer to her.
At that point I noticed something was different about her
and I commented on it. She said she had her hair done and I said it looked good and she reacted in quite a suprised
manner and said thank you.
My question is (& I have the feeling a strong yes is in order) that some women are
attracted to your "natural" pheromones while wearing pheromones in certain womens prescence could turn them off
completely?
From what I understand, we can't smell our own pheromones correct? Only the right person can
right?
I have never OD on dosages while out in public just to keep in mind.
Thanks for your opinions.
Please?
I really
need some opinions regarding this.
Could my mone mix have turned her off while she is
more turned on by my own
natural mones which I can't smell?
Thanks very much for your time and opinions, it's appreciated.
People that have known/were
attracted to you before you started wearing mones are usually unresponsive to them, but from my experience it seems
that they do notice that something is different about you. At times it felt like it created a sense of awkwardness,
as if they "weren't used to it." Over time, however, they seemed to grow more accustomed to the change, and their
behavior around me changed in a more positive manner.
One reason she might appear to be less attracted is that
there is something that substancially different about you and she simply doesn't know how to react to it. Another,
she might have been digging you at your natural pheromone level, and you applying synthetic mones might have put you
in an OD range. Try toning down the NPA, Chikara, or eliminating one of them altoghether.
I would recommend to rotate the
usage of -mones when faced with known acquaintances.
I wore different products daily. One colleague noted
"Something is different about you today. Oh! I know, you just had a haircut, or maybe it's that new shirt you're
wearing!" I was wearing A314 + SoE/u.
They are trying to validate these new feelings with something they had
known in the past, about me, but they could never put a finger on what or how. But I don't need them to validate
the changes they observed. I want them to accept those new thoughts associated with me.
Rotating the
products could make them give up the validation process. It keeps them guessing, and at some point, they will give
up & don't bother. This makes the assimilation easier, rather than forcing it & making a huge statement which
people who knows you well finds it hard to believe.
It's a different story with strangers though.
Everything begins with an attitude.
There is also the possibility
that pheromones don't strongly affect every possible human interaction and that other outside factors are more
important. The manager that you are interested in may have felt awkward when you made your intentions known and is
trying to figure out where she stands and how to play her relationship to you.
I believe that pheromones do have
very specific properties which enhance interactions but being very narrow-focused on their use while ignoring the
entire spectrum of external variables seems short sighted. Personally I have decided to wear the pheromones and
forget about them. There are many other factors which seem of greater importance to obsess about. Good luck.
At the time you said you were not
wearing pheromones,how many days had you not been wearing them? There is a possibility that what you were
experiencing was a result of pheromone build up.Build up is one of the reasons that people will take periodic breaks
from using them,giving thier skin a chance to shed any built up mones so they can start again with a clean slate.In
this period of "down time" (usualy a day or two) many people report continuing to get hits and sometimes getting
even better hits than when they use pheromones.I have had several "day after" hits,which told me that I might have
been wearing too much to begin with.
Try using less and see what happens.Perhapse every other day or just use a
smaller ammounts and see what the results are.
luxveritas: Pheromones are the basis uppon which we decide the
phisical compatability of an individual as a mate.This is especialy true of women.The pheromone signature gives our
brains clues regarding the quality of the offspring that will be generated as a result of mating with a particular
individual.Once that level of attraction has been established,the rest is all about game.She may think your hot,but
that wont get her in the sack with you...but by the same token,it doesnt mean she doesnt want to.
I guess in a way, I was just
playing devils advocate. Because this is a forum dedicated to pheromone use, I find that many posters ignore the
gestalt view of human interaction and motivations. We humans are tricky animals full of deceit and misdirection. It
may seem at times, easier to focus on an understandable and controllable variable such as pheromone use rather than
delve into the psychology of those we interact with.
When you interact with someone and receive negative
feedback perhaps it is the pheromones at work or perhaps that person just got off the phone with their nagging
mother. I prefer to view any results of pheromone use as a net positive or negative effect rather than on a case by
case basis. Then again I am still a noob and posses a hint of skepticism. Overall my interactions with people have
been more positive since I started using pheromones but I also have been working on other areas of myself such as
appearance, body language and demeanor.
There is the possibility that the manager you are interested in does
find you attractive but feels that any action on her part can only cause negative consequences.
I think this is what I'm going to have to do as I never use more than one full dab and aOriginally Posted by Sigma
half of NPA, and not even a full spray of Chikara.
I swear when I'm around her without the mones, she never
discusses her supposed boyfriend and even confides in me that she's sometimes alone on Friday nights despite having
friends. And I notice she wants to give me close hugs and more flirty without them
But when I do wear mones, she
makes it a point to bring up her supposed boyfriend every time we meet. With mones she sometimes tries to keep her
distance.
Strange how mones can affect the wearer and people around him/her
I think you're right about this. But for now, maybe 2-3 weeks I will go without mones and seeOriginally Posted by itwow
what happens.
But here's the thing, for at least 3 months of visiting with her I was wearing no mones at all andOriginally Posted by tim929
I noticed signs of flirting. And I notice that she squirms in her chair and crosses/uncrosses her legs frequently
then has to go to the rest room??? Any ideas what this is?
Well I think I'm already at the lowest possible dose
of the mix as I'm using no more than a dab and a half of NPA (full dab) and half a spray of chikara on my neck.
Maybe a semi dab of NPA and less than half a spray of Chikara is in order?
In regards to your last paragraph, I think this is probably the case unfortunately. But IOriginally Posted by luxveritas
think in situations like this, sometimes feelings have to take over. If she'd make a move, I'd gladly get another
time management/organizational skill coach in order to be with her.
I'd cut back on the NPA. -none can
really screw things up. I've gotten a number of negative reactions even with only a drop of PI or NPA with some
women. This one you are dealing with may be "-none averse." I have a gf like that. Has just about literally curled
up in a defensive ball when I tested -none heavy products/mixes.
The opposite of love isn't hate.
It's apathy.
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