bump for help
first im a complete
noob with mones. i ordererd chikara unscented with SOE. I wanted to use it on the love of my life. Im 20 years old,
fairly attractive decent build. Me and her have been friends for a very long time and i know for a fact there is a
mutual attraction and feelings to each other, the only problem is there is a wall of timid feelings between the both
of us. The first day i used this i put a spray of soe on my wrist and rubbed it on the other, another on the left
side of my neck, and one spray of chikara on the right side of my neck. I picked her up one day and she couldnt stop
talking to me about herself and she was very anxious and fidgety and sitting extremely close to me for the most part
of the night. it wore off by the end of the night but i was reassured it was working. 2 days from then I decided to
go with the same combo except apply the chikara later on (i also have been applying it during that two day break so
maybe i OD'd). We went out to see a live DJ except this time she was somewhat avoiding me (sort of?), i would
always catch her glancing at me and when i made eye contact she would instantly look away. she even said she was
going to the washroom and i saw her go off to the top balcony of the venue and start staring at me, i made eye
contact and she ran away...? later on when the effects wore of she wasnt as distant but from that night she has been
distancing herself from me and ive felt like ive ruined something that ive worked so hard to build up. What can i do
to patch things up and get back the meaningful connection we once shared. Any other mones i should try? I was
thinking beta-nol/liquid trust/my current SOE on its own
bump for help
you been friends for very long
time . Maybe thats the problem.
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Spice Weed
Last edited by chicago; 04-08-2011 at 04:06 PM.
chicago may be right. You've
suddenly introduced a powerful new pheromone signature to someone who knows you very well, and its scaring her. Try
using SoE on its own, in small doses, and if things get back to normal try the C7 on its own, in small
amounts.
It can be very difficult to move from the Friends zone, good luck.
Yes, may have used too much too
soon.
It seemed to be working. Now she may be getting confused.
Back off for a while on pheromone use and
ease into it again slowly. Start with the more social Soe type product.
Remember less is more, so to speak. You
may have greater succes with very small amounts of added pheromones. It doesn't take much sometimes. In fact you
may risk making things worse if you use too much.
Also remember that you and others may react differently to
pheromones from day to day, week to week, due to natural body changes. Female monthly cycles can, but not always,
affect reactions as well. Pay attention and maybe keep a journal or diary. Just don't let her find it...
The opposite of love isn't hate.
It's apathy.
I agree with Chicago. Pheromones
may not help you. There seem to be other issues that are involved.
i was also wondering if that
night would leave a lasting impression
Hi dudeman !
Strangely it sounds
like you have to win her trust - although you have known her a long time.
Ask her what she would really like to
do/go to & take her out for a day. Once there buy her something she would like - e.g. box of chocolates. Remind her
that you have known each for a long time & so you can both relax.
Ask her if she has a favourite cologne on a
man & (if you like that cologne as well) ask her to help you to choose it. Get her to relax with you by getting
involved in a easy going atmosphere.
Just a small spray/dab of SOE on your chest for 'background' support
Sounds like you have to win her over ...
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