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furburger, this is the whole issue!!

We work in the same building,on the same team, on the same projects and work side by side. If a romance went wrong

then it would create a lot of stress for both of us. For neither of us is going to quit our jobs.

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Well, either you want something to happen or you don\'t. The work

situation won\'t change unless one of you leaves the firm. Pheros won\'t change the work situation either.

It\'s just a question of whether y\'all want to risk an on the job romance which granted can be rough and

potentially hazardous to one\'s job. If you think it\'s worth the risk then make the move coz this guy will

never make any move if you\'ve known him for 4 yrs or whatever. If you want him, go for him and throw caution to

the wind, or just forget about him entirely if the risks are not worth it. Been in this situation a number of times

myself and decided the risks just weren\'t worth it.