Expert Needed. Subject the "EX"

[egomaniac]

Here\'s the deal. I will be seeing my ex later in the week. This will be the first time we have seen each other

since the middle of last november. Today, was the first time we talked on the phone since december. The longest

freaking phone call of my life! When i ended the call on my cell 4hrs 59min we talked. I dont think we talked that

much are entire relationship. Anyway, my question is, I am using TE unscented. I never used any mones when we were

together. We were together for about 2 years. Say for example, we were thinking about getting back together.

Would the mones enhance the perception of this, or would it turn her away? Obviously she is used to a certain scent

that i have. I have been using mones for awhile and I know they are no wonder drug, but I dont want to push her

away at the same point either. I know TE is used more for sexual hits. That may as well happen since she asked me

to drive 2 hours to come see her. The signs are still there that she has feelings for me, but this is also a girl

that has never gotten back with an ex (stupid girl for some odd reason believes that people cant get back together

if the first time didnt work out). I am not needing love advice, such as i need to move on, because I have. Has

anybody else been in this situation and used mones? What was used? What happened? Would you suggest using mones

in a situation like this? Both guys and gals advice i would appreciate.

[DefconX3]

I have not had an experience like yours exactly, though I have been around girls that I havent used mones around

previously and the results have been good. It seems like they seem a bit unsure about what is different about me but

after a few minutes they warm up to it. I would just recommend to keep the minimalist manifesto in mind on this case

since she is most likely used to your old scent, you just want to enhance it, not drop an atomic phero bomb.

[egomaniac]

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I would just recommend to keep the

minimalist manifesto in mind on this case since she is most likely used to your old scent, you just want to enhance

it, not drop an atomic phero bomb.

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My thoughts exactly, I want

to put on enough so maybe she gets a feeling that says \"hey, here\'s the new me!\" I have been working out a

lot harder, and will be bigger and more physically cut then I was 5 months ago, the last time she has seen me. I

have also grown out my hair a little. Basically, I have a new image that she will not be used to, but for the

better. I want the mones to enhance that.

[DrSmellThis]

It is much easier to \"OD\" with an ex than with others. Keep dosage light for sure.

[CJ01]

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Would the mones enhance the perception of this, or

would it turn her away?

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> that´s pretty unpredictable

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You haven´t seen each other for a while this could actually

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Has anybody else been in

this situation and used mones?

<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> not really I have a similar `policy´

like your gf [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]

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Question is do you want to take up the relationship again or

just have sex for old times sake? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
Is TE the only product you

have?

[Bottle]

....move on

[egomaniac]

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Question is do you want to take up the

relationship again or just have sex for old times sake? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]
Is TE the

only product you have?


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Honestly, it a little bit of both. Is

she the right person for me, probably not. But I do keep standards way to high, and that was the downfall of our

relationship. After 3 months of not talking, she was the one who iniated the phone call. As for the mones all i

have right now is TE, so that is what I going to have to use. Im thinking of getting a bottle of AE, but it wont be

here in time.
CJ01, what is your deal with that policy. Overtime people change, and if one point in your past

relationship everying was better than you have ever had, then because of outside circumstances(job, financial

obligations) everything went sour. For me, besides cheating, I would get back with a girl that I dated for a long

time if I knew that there was still potential.

[CJ01]

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Overtime people change,

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I would get back with a girl that I dated for a long time if I knew that there was still potential.

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If you both feel the same way then go for it.

If all you have TE then

you just need to worry about the dose now. What dose works best for you so far? I´m thinking that it may be a good

idea to go easy on the TE when you go to meet her at first.

[Bottle]

ohhh you cant hurry love, you\'ll just have to wait... [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

[Elana]

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....move on

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He said don\'t tell him that!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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[Bottle]

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....move on

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He said

don\'t tell him that!!! [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/mad.gif[/img]

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you know

I\'m right though [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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[hand on shoulder]

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[Elana]

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....move on



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He said don\'t tell him that!!!

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you know I\'m right though

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Yeah [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

[egomaniac]

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If you both feel the same way then go

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The dose that best works for me is 2

sprays, one on my chest under my clothes, then the other on the back of my head. That has worked many times, but

this will also be a one-on-one situation and not at a bar/social gathering.
Tough crowd out there, there has to be

someone out ther5e in the world that has gotten back with and ex and lived happily ever after!

[CJ01]

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there has to be someone out ther5e in the world

that has gotten back with and ex and lived happily ever after!


<hr /></blockquote><font class=\"post\"> Roy

Orbison married his wife twice [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

[DefconX3]

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not really I have a similar `policy´ like your gf

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Sounds like

someone else is a reader of The System [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif[/img]...

[CJ01]

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[Sacogoo]

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Would you suggest using mones in a situation like

this?

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No, I would recommend a shotgun, preferrably a 12 gauge

loaded up with 00 buck shot.

However, knowing that men are pathetic, worthless sacks of monkey poo in that they

will initially debase themselves to the lowest level in order to have a constant/regular supply of sex, especially

with an ex where familiarity is so key, sure, slather on those \'mones. So you flush your self-esteem down the

crapper, but at least you get laid, right? Anyhow, it sounds like she might be rethinking her dating policy, and,

besides, it might as well be you as much as the next guy. I mean, your next girlfriend will probably end up

crapping on you anyway (maybe even worse), so you might as well just go ahead and saddle it up. Pride,

self-respect? Nice to have, but they won\'t get you laid with the ex now will they?

[Icarus]

Shotgun. All the way.

[Phantom]

Screw the \"EX\" (not literaly), and find some other chick. After I brake up with a girl I never go back. The

second time things go down the crapper, you will feel even worse.

[egomaniac]

Damn Sacogoo! Just needed some advise not a thrashing! I totally understand where everybody is coming

from. I think the pride thing hurts the most. She is only the second girl to ever break up with me! I know I

sound kind of conceded, but I do all the breaking-up. So, if I feel that my ex and I still wont get along after we

meet. I will sleep with her, then tell her I have been banging her best friend for the last month. That\'s how I

got back at the other girl who broke up with me. I felt totally better after that. All im saying is that everyone

has been in this position that getting back with an ex was a posibility. We all make mistakes that we regret, and

we all want to be forgiven for those. Especially if you know that person was really good for you. Its not like im

going to drop to my knees and kiss her ass when I see her. She is going to drop to her kness and do what ever.

[apple]

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Damn Sacogoo! Just needed some advise not a

thrashing! I totally understand where everybody is coming from. I think the pride thing hurts the most. She is

only the second girl to ever break up with me! I know I sound kind of conceded, but I do all the breaking-up. So,

if I feel that my ex and I still wont get along after we meet. I will sleep with her, then tell her I have been

banging her best friend for the last month. That\'s how I got back at the other girl who broke up with me. I

felt totally better after that. All im saying is that everyone has been in this position that getting back with an

ex was a posibility. We all make mistakes that we regret, and we all want to be forgiven for those. Especially if

you know that person was really good for you. Its not like im going to drop to my knees and kiss her ass when I see

her. She is going to drop to her kness and do what ever.

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ok so

shes a good person who was good for you and left you so youre gonna do a mean terrible thing like that cause

you\'re shallow and are mad you didnt crush her first. sounds like she left you for damn good reasons in the first

place if you\'re like that. get over it. be her friend maybe?

[Elana]

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Damn Sacogoo! Just needed some advise not a thrashing! I totally understand

where everybody is coming from. I think the pride thing hurts the most. She is only the second girl to ever break

up with me! I know I sound kind of conceded, but I do all the breaking-up. So, if I feel that my ex and I still

wont get along after we meet. I will sleep with her, then tell her I have been banging her best friend for the last

month. That\'s how I got back at the other girl who broke up with me. I felt totally better after that. All im

saying is that everyone has been in this position that getting back with an ex was a posibility. We all make

mistakes that we regret, and we all want to be forgiven for those. Especially if you know that person was really

good for you. Its not like im going to drop to my knees and kiss her ass when I see her. She is going to drop to

her kness and do what ever.

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ok so shes a good person who was

good for you and left you so youre gonna do a mean terrible thing like that cause you\'re shallow and are mad you

didnt crush her first. sounds like she left you for damn good reasons in the first place if you\'re like that. get

over it. be her friend maybe?

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This coming from the girl that spit

her ex boyfriends cum down his throat? [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif[/img]

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[apple]

that was cause he cheated on me and it was well deserved. if she was a bitch who deserved it thats different

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[egomaniac]

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ok so shes a good person who was good for you and left

you so youre gonna do a mean terrible thing like that cause you\'re shallow and are mad you didnt crush her first.

sounds like she left you for damn good reasons in the first place if you\'re like that. get over it.

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Im not going to say that unless she pisses me off. First, i treated her

better then anyone she\'s ever been with. I am a little over bearing at times. but had to with her. Im a college

gradute, have a great job, and taking classes for my masters. She is a 24 year old who dropped out of school after

3 1/2(only at sophmore standing) and now lives at home with her parents and works at a bar. By the way her town

only has about 3000 people (not much opportunity there). So of course if i wanted her to better herself and set

higer goals, fine then I am an overbearing jerk. But on the other hand I had to pick up the slack and work 14/hr

days so I can provide a future for us. But she took that as lack of interest in her, and major problems began to

arise because she did not understand the importance of the dollar! So if you think that\'s shallow, fine by me!

[egomaniac]

YES! I know from what i said above is all the reason not to start something up with her again, so

nobody has to write anything about that!

[Sexyredhead]

You had a plan/project. She had a plan. Her plan does not agree with your plan, and like any

self-respecting person, she resisted when you tried to MAKE her fit your plan. And you are no longer together. And

just because you\'ve given her a few months to mull it over in her head, there\'s still a good possibility that

her plan is not gonna line up with your plan, no matter how much you try to force it. So go find someone who will

fit.

Nothing screams \"I\'m still not over you!\" like trying to make someone hurt MONTHS after you broke up.

Grow up. Think of how it would feel if someone did it to you. If you still feel like you want to \'get back\' at

her because she\'s no longer madly in love with you, then it\'s probably a good idea not to see her again at

all.

[egomaniac]

Sexy, if you read my earlier post, I did not initiate this. She Did! I have not spoken to her for 3

months until the other day. She\'s the one who called me! In fact I was pretty much over her, until the other

day when things came rushing back. She\'s the one who wants to see me, not the other way around. Would i mind

catching up with her, NO. You cant spend years of your life with someone and still not have feelings for that

person, ESPECIALLY, if there was no cheating involved.

[Sexyredhead]

It doesn\'t matter who initiated it. Your pride is hurt and you want to hurt her because she had the

nerve to break up with you before you could break up with her. If you feel like this, then you don\'t need to see

her, because you aren\'t over her yet. When you don\'t care anymore is when it might be a good time. You\'re

still tending to your wounded pride. Be the man in this situation and do what\'s best for both of you. Leave it

alone until you can deal with it in a rational manner. And btw, planning how you will best crush her emotionally is

not a sign of rational thinking.

[Bottle]

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Sexy, if you read my earlier post, I did not

initiate this. She Did! I have not spoken to her for 3 months until the other day. She\'s the one who called

me! In fact I was pretty much over her, until the other day when things came rushing back. She\'s the one who

wants to see me, not the other way around. Would i mind catching up with her, NO. You cant spend years of your

life with someone and still not have feelings for that person, ESPECIALLY, if there was no cheating involved.



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dont go, its clear you are not ready to see her yet.

[egomaniac]

Obviously, people are taking the whole \"I slept with your best friend and now im going to tell you,

just to get you back,\" out of context. First, its true. Second, there is no way I am going to tell her that. If

you would understand what goes on inside this girls head, it would turn into a grudge match. I get back at her, she

gets back at me kind of a thing. I dont need to deal with that at this point in my life. Lets all forget I said

that, because it wont happen, there was a little humor in what I said.