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    All I'm sayng is that if you

    wait for a woman to show you some sort of signs of interest, you're decreasing the number of women you might be

    able to create attraction with to those few that are already attracted to you (unless you look like a model).



    Very few men are physically attractive enough to have most women instantly attracted to them based on looks

    alone. Luckily for men, women base less of their choices on physical attractiveness alone (not that it's not

    important to them). Women are more intersted in the type of attitudes and behaviors in men that demonstrate high

    status, relaxed confidence, lack of neediness, that he is in demand and could care less if she is intersted in him

    or not. Yes, using body language to help comunicate these is imortant, but just getting out in the field and

    approaching women and becoming more confortable and confident automatically improves body language.

    All I'm

    telling you is that since I've been using David D's and Keanu Jager's info, I've approached, dated and slept

    with more beautiful women in the last 6-8 months than in the previous 10 years. And I don't use any NLP (other than

    improving myself) or other manipulative acts to do this.

    And tell me, what's more manipulative, acting like

    (and becoming) the type of man that women are attracted to at instinctual level or taking a woman to an expensive

    restaurant, buying her gifts, doing nice things for her in an attempt to get her to like you (you don't think an

    attractive woman knows what you're trying to do when you do these things?).

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    Quote Originally Posted by phersurf
    All I'm sayng

    is that if you wait for a woman to show you some sort of signs of interest, you're decreasing the number of women

    you might be able to create attraction with to those few that are already attracted to you (unless you look like a

    model).
    I cannot agree with that at all. Women express their interest in a man very quickly. It is an

    instinctive reaction, just like the way we gawk. It's just that most guys don't recognize those signs of

    interest.

    You cannot "create" attraction in a woman, despite what DeAngelo and others say. All you can do is

    trip trigger switches that she already has. That is, she is attracted to certain qualities, and you either show her

    you have those qualities or you don't.

    In study after study, women consistently do NOT pick physically

    attractive men over other men unless everything else is equal: status, income, and persnality.

    What women find

    attractive in men are confidence, achievement, and security. Looks are not anywhere near important as demeanor.



    No matter how successful you feel you are today, improve your knowledge of body language, and you'll see how much

    more success you can experience.

    Women use their body language to communicate to men all the time. Most guys

    have no idea of how many opportunities they let slip by.

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    Quote Originally Posted by phersurf

    Women are

    ..... and could care less if she is intersted in him or not.
    I've approached


    how do you TRY and create attraction and then at the same time convey that you are not

    interested in whether they are intersted?

    also, I've found playing it cool and don't care leads to nothing

    but the "no balls" impression.

    And.....(I feel like Bart right now) does Mick Reeves think it is ok to be

    show that you give a sh!t if you are confident and smooth in your chase.
    "An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
    --Benjamin Franklin

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