For the benefit of others reading

this thread, I offer a few thoughts:

I know there are some who totally reject the idea of the PUA "community"

and materials, and I grant there are some guys out there who get far too "technical" and tied into a "plan." (And I

personally think some of what I've seen is crap. Some is good. Some ain't.)

But I have also been seeing in a

lot of social psychology and anthropological literature that there is more and more a belief amongst professionals

that not only social skills and behaviors (appropriate to the culture) AND the sexual "game" itself, despite the old

song about "doin' what comes naturally", has to be *learned.*

Part of the key is finding what works for you,

and making it a "natural" part of you.

Just an interjection...