i think the guys that get hits
here do other things besides just wearing -mones. grooming and dressing good comes to mind. it retarded how many
guys don't know how to dress or know how to keep themselves well groomed.
Why do some
people seem to have great results with pretty much anything they put on where others appear impervious to
attraction? Good body hygene vs stinky vs natural? Congruency? The guy smells like an alpha or something like it but
looks or acts NOTHING like it vs congruent confident male? And what about the idea of younger guys producing way
more none than the older men should use less of it? Since the average application is like ~x1000 the natural bodys
level how would they notice a younger male (say .0010 none)vs older (.0007) ? And how big is that difference anyway?
That dosent seem to add up. My idea is maybe incongruency in the comparative levels of mones throws them off. J Kohl
posted about different ratios of mones in gay vs straight men. I have, personally on several occasions been able to
tell by smell straight vs gay vs bi males. Intersting thing was I could CLEARLY tell even the gay from bisexual...
Is that teh kind of chemical congruency were striving for? Youre trying to register clearly on the nosedar, not some
confusing blob of messages as that could in fact simply jam the recipient.
i think the guys that get hits
here do other things besides just wearing -mones. grooming and dressing good comes to mind. it retarded how many
guys don't know how to dress or know how to keep themselves well groomed.
Good post. A greatOriginally Posted by Icehawk
topic.
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
I think most of the guys with
huge hit lists are guys who already get hits and know their way with the ladies, and some might already be
attractive. They use mones as a "coupe de grace" the cherie on top of the cake, not even they say it all comes to
mones, or that mones will do all the work...
Last edited by Silcat; 02-16-2005 at 07:38 AM. Reason: gramatical errors
In my young and lustful years, that was long, long ago when Jimmy Carter was president....
horrifying thought, I'm still here running on about 1/2 of a testicle... wheeeeeze... some people knew how to dress
well even on a limited budget, they would go cruise the used clothing stores and eventually come out looking like a
million bucks. Other people would spend loads of money and look out of place, uncooordinated, not attractive, not
physically present... they weren't framing themselves right. Being well dressed (knowing which colors, which color
combinations, patterns, clothing fit) had a great impact on their social lives. The most socially astute of them
knew how to dress just a little bit better than everybody else without creating the impression that they were being
too competetive or flashy.... flashy, garish, loud, over the top... all of those screamed NEEDY LOSER or CLUELESS
COKEHEAD.... the look that worked was a casual confidence with a little twist of tightness and control... the
message was "I know how this game is played, I'm aware of the social cues involved and I'm conscious of the things
going on around me"... you had to be aware that the strong saturated colors that look excellent on a really dark
skinned black man completely blow away a light complexioned englishman, you must carefully match some of your
clothes to the color of your eyes because the eyes are very erotic, the patterns of your clothes must match your
body type.... and what you are wearing must suggest the identity you are trying to project....
Have some free
time with your DVD player ? Rent the movie
Roger Dodger (2002) for a few good tips about what not to do...
also recommend Igby Goes Down (2002) where Jeff Goldblum nails the character of the perfectly dressed
male sleazeball.
I do believeOriginally Posted by Icehawk
the overall message you are sending is important.
My way of translating that into application strategies is to
learn what each chemical (or multimone product like Edge or Chikara) does, and then think about projecting those
qualities how I want to.
I use a variety of products (especially single -mone products) to cover all my bases
and try to reach a sort of "virtual body wisdom", knowing my body also projects various -mone signatures based on
what I'm feeling, wanting and thinking (including, for example, situations of lust or fear), and what physical
issues I might be having. You imitate what your body does in all its wisdom. This gives me maximum, flexible
capabilities.
Over time, through interacting with your social environment, you will learn to project the
qualities you should project, just like socialization teaches you to project certain social qualities and not
others. You become sort of "socialized" in your -mone use.
I always want my natural mones to be as much of the
effect as possible -- therefore attracting the women I should attract and repelling the ones I have no natural
chemistry with. This I accomplish through natural hygiene habits (see "not bathing for a week" thread).
So your post brings up interesting and valid issues which I don't have all the answers to. But I think this kind
of approach circumvents the problems nonetheless. For instance if a young man is projecting too much hostility, he
will eventually be socialized (conditioned by his social environment) to project less; just as he will tend
to get, say, negative reactions from "too much" -none. Over time he will decrease his use of that chemical.
You
do also have to have good relationships with women in general (I posted on this a few days ago too), and be able to
seduce a woman when the opportunity presents itself. I developed these skills over the years on my own.
Dressing well within what you are trying to project is important. You can do this even with a very casual look, if
you are attentive to all the aesthetic elements.
DrSmellThis (creator of P H E R O S)
I agree, dressing well but appropriately is a biggie for sucess, not justDressing well within what
you are trying to project is important. You can do this even with a very casual look, if you are attentive to all
the aesthetic elements.
with women but with all interactions social and business. However, how you carry yourself, speak and interact is
equally important. I have a slick dressing and nice looking friend that scares women away the moment he speaks. His
vocabulary consists mainly of curse words, making him appear uneducated, low class and crude. He thinks talkin
ghetto is macho and cool (he's actually a middle class white dude). A stained set of overalls would better fit his
persona than Calvin Klein. Now he gets plenty of slutty women but could do a lot better.
"I'm just a dirty hornytoad" -Gegogi
It is retardedOriginally Posted by TRock
how many guys think how they dress or how to keep themselves well groomed actually matters. This is understandable,
since to a male, a provocatively dressed woman generates immediate romantic interest, and they also observe
attractive females swooning over "hot guys". Women are attracted and intrigued by social status or financial
independence, or simply social dominance. Personal hygiene or a clean appearence are secondary considerations. Jay
Z and Beyonce are a good example.
Even, Gegogi, being a music professor, probably notices this.
desmond morris did some shows
for tv , showing how sexes are attracted. its scientifically proven women are attracted to neanderthal looking men
during her time of the month. women want to be married to a pie face smooth looking man though. it could be there
lesbian fantasies coming through . seeing smoothness being feminine and erstrogen related. mr.olympia type men are
not attractive to women, but swim suit guys like brad pitt is what they want. when i was 18- 140 pounds with abs
women 16 to 50 were after me. dressing nice makes women think you have money which is very attractive to them. mone
should be used for a target like getting that single girl who seems to just want to be friends or respect from
people who see you as punk. and women have different tastes, like black headed women like blonde,brown,red headed
guys. my wife being blonde and pale skinned has made the comment about men like skinned being ugly. im brown headed
with skin that tans easier than hers with red and black body hair which seems attractive to her. opposites attract
in the mating game, if your black headed -reds,blondes,browns will be more attracted to you. now if your gray die
your hair different than your target like blonde looking youthful, most brown headed people were blonde as kids. now
if your asian,black shaving your head seems to be in getting you looks from all women and using lots of nol mones
will get them more friendly. and actually dressing like a pirate one gold earring and puffy frilly long sleeve
shirts with upper chest exposed with gold neck chain and pendant. tight pants with dress boots is a winner.
we need a volunteer
The BEST MONE OF THEM ALL: The
SUIT
But I do agree that you guys all overrated dressing. It can hurt you, but won't help you all that
much unless you are really original and talented with it.
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
Originally Posted by Sir Louis
being dress good is only one area that you need to do well. women liked how you dress to how your personality is.
if you leave the house looking like trash, do you think she is going to see you as a guy who has standards and takes
care of himself? i'm not saying looking good is all to the equation but it is a factor. btw jay-z is the trend
setter when it comes to clothing in hip hop. the pretty boy will always beat out the ungroomed, poorly dressed guy
given the same skill set.
Dressing in the manner of television people is not the same as well dressed... those
identities are created for maximum visual projection from a smaller than life screen... the secret is to look
natural in a high quality way. The same goes for good manners, you don't want to come off as over scripted, over
controlled, with a long list of memorized lines or so neurotically hung up on the other's evaluation of you that
you are paralysed with self consciousness, however you better not be so indifferent to other's perceptions and full
of your own specialness that you disgust and bore other people.
Think about it this way: the secret of the
game is interest, curiosity. When someone else in interesting (for more than thirty seconds, that is) what makes
them interesting ? What makes you want to talk to them, get into their thoughts, find out what they've learned from
living ? If someone sidles up to you at a bar and they're wearing a way too tight cheezy green polyester body shirt
and overjuiced hair with a grooming product that looks like half dried snot and they're bellowing about how all the
women there are stuck up bitches you stick around for what ? 5 seconds max ? These poor sods don't get it, they're
social anti-matter, and they'll insist that those who don't appreciate their fine inner selves, "that's their
problem".....obviously such a person doesn't invite curiosity. Now, take the same scenario and imagine a well put
together, carefully dressed person who can discuss three or four topics in some detail, who the women are casting
glances at instead of the other way around, someone who radiates a self confidence and quiet authority, would you
care to be seen in the company of this person ? Would you like to be identified in other's minds with this person ?
Would you feel better about yourself being accepted in the company of this person ?
When everyone's well dressed though,
all you are is another schnuck. So I guess it matters how everyone else is dressed, too.
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
the
corporate crowd doesn't allow too much deviation, they're wild hippies compared to the investment bankers who are
so damned uptight they express their individuality with their cufflinks and that's about as far as they'll stick
their necks out. One of business textbooks used to refer to the edge as the "unique selling proposition", what can
you hone sharper than anyone else? It takes a rare mix of imagination, some cojones and a balancing factor of social
sensitivity to pull this thing off right. The geniuses have an intuition, a feel for the room, the emotional
temperature of things.... maybe you saw Clint Eastwood interviewed by James Lipton on The Actor's Studio ? Lipton
asks Eastwood about his innovative use of silence, and Eastwood talks about the importance of listening, he thought
that high schools should teach the art of listening, how one becomes aware of another person. Then there were
Eastwood clones in the '70s affecting his stinky little cigars or James Dean clones minus J.D's vulnerability and
Hip Hop clones today.
I was just thinkingOriginally Posted by surfs_up
about that interview, while listening to another with Alec Baldwin. And the sentiments were the same: Listen
and react. Very simple. Clutch that script too tightly and you'll never be effective at either of the above.
You'll never be able to just let things evolve, and, ultimately, you'll come off as cold and phony.
Same
holds true in any social situation.
If a guy's a cocksucker in his life, when he dies, he don't become a saint. - Morris Levy, Hitmen
Holmes' Theme Song
I've also been thinking something along those lines does not addOriginally Posted by Icehawk
up-- I've seen posts that say by wearing mones we are giving off a signature hundreds of (or a thousand) times
stronger than our normal signature... but if that were true, a person's natural signature should not really matter
in determining how much to wear before OD... it would be the same for everyone. For example, say the average dose
for a 'none wearer is .03mg. That would mean that a person's natural signature would be, say, between .00001mg
and .00005mg (allowing for one person to have up to 5x stronger natural emission than another). Wear the mones, and
you have a range of .03001mg to .03005mg... a difference hardly worth mentioning. The only conclusion I can draw is
that the 'mones we wear are NOT hundreds or thousands of times stronger than our natural scent, as is commonly
held, but more along the lines of several times as strong (single-digits here).
As for the topic of
clothing, I would say that you need to wear what shows you off the best... something I don't really do myself. I
like to wear loose-fitting shirts, but every time a woman I am with sees me topless for the first time, although she
is pleasantly suprised, she complains that I should wear shirts that show off my body better, as she did not realize
how I looked underneath the shirt ahead of time.
I also agree with what has been already said, too. This was
just my $.02 addition.
Riley
Actually, I used to think the same
thing, but I don't think the differences in our total output and the levels we wear are that different (1000x). My
guess is that the products are that much stronger for a drop of it compared to a drop of our own sweat, but not all
the mones on our skin.
I am sure others are more familiar with the actual numbers of our own total
levels.
"The geniuses have an intuition, a feel for the room, the emotional temperature of things....
"
this struck me too holmes. He always gives great advice.
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
I used to get hits before I used the pheromones, butOriginally Posted by Silcat
not on the scale I get them now.
And there are plenty of days where nothing seems to happen. It depends on who
you meet, what you do, and what you notice.
Pheromones can help increase your success, but your own confidence
is necessary regardless of what you do. You have to be confident in the belief that, if you don't meet anyone
today, you will tomorrow.
I did some forum research on this ages agoOriginally Posted by bjf
(before the forum change so my links don't work), here is what I copy/pasted (sorry for the lack of coherence):
Here's a range of none for tested subjects, distributed on the skin of their armpit
(not the secretion concentration, but what's actually found on the skin):
.0033-.0077 micrograms -none/sq in (from my personal survey of the literature)
Notice that is micrograms, not milligrams.
If you work out one
spray of Andro4.2 at 0.13 milligrams/spray, covering about 10 sq in (from my experiments), you'll see that one
spray applies hundreds of times the amount of none to your skin that you would find in the armpit of the most alpha
male. Plus you are applying the product to a location more open than the armpit, most likely.
Let's get off this thing about some guys produce enough -none. The biggest none-producer I
could find (.0077microgram/sq in armpit) is producing HUNDREDS of times LESS none than we apply with one spray of
any none product. And we don't think one spray is an overdose, do we?
Thanks for catching that error - I meant to say ml instead of mg there. Let
me write it all out so you can verify:
Andr04.2 0.14 mg/ml
Sprays 0.13 ml/spray
1
spray A4.2 gives (.13)(.14)= 0.018 mg/spray
I sprayed the bottle on a piece of paper and
got about 10 sq inch wet coverage for one spray, so one spray A4.2 delivers:
(0.018mg/spray)/(10 sq in)= 0.0018 mg/sq in none distributed on the sprayed surface
OR,
in micrograms, 1.8 mug/sq in
My number for none naturally distributed on male underarm skin
is 0.007 mug/sq in (max), so divide to get the ratio of phero product vs. natural occurence:
1.8/0.007 = 257 times the natural distributed none of the male
underarm
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I sat in a medical library one day and found three references to none distributed on the underarm skin in test
subjects. I was more interested in that than in the gland secretion concentration, which we often see posted here -
I wanted to know what is actually presented by the human skin, not about the mechanism of its generation. Anyway, I
didn't note the sources since I don't intend to research this as a hobby. When the numbers looked consistent
across three studies I just compiled them, converted them all to same units and pressed on. I use these numbers -
you may want to verify if you care enough about it. I just searched under 'androstenone' and 'axillary'.
A couple studies showed nol much more variable, numbers like 0.002-0.045 mug/sq in.
If you find better numbers post em...I'm really just interested in order of magnitude info
once I figured out how much these applied products exceed anything ever generated in the natural
condition.
IRISH
----------------------------------------------------
The concentrations of five 16-androstene steroids were determined, by a GC-MS
method, in freshly-produced apocrine sweat (adrenaline-induced), in 8 men and 2 women. The ranges of concentrations
(nmol/microliter) in
apocrine sweat were: 5 alpha-androst-16-en-3-one (5 alpha-A), 0.1-2.0 and
4,16-androstadien-3-one
(androstadienone), 0-1.9, 5,16-Androstadien-3 beta-ol (androstadienol) was also found in 5
of the subjects (range
0.05-1.05). 5 alpha-Androst-16-en-3 alpha- or 3 beta-ols [3 alpha (beta)-androstenols] were
only found in small
amounts (< 0.1 nmol/microliters) in a few subjects.
The amounts here are tiny, but the volumes are different
than what we use with synthetic pheromones. 2 nmol/microliter [thanks truth!] of androstenone
(5alpha-androst-16-en-3-one) is about 0.0014%. To compare, PI has 0.05% -none and APC has 0.005%
Of course, we only use a drop or two of PI (about 100 microliters), while we sweat
more profusely. The same amount of -none as 100 microliters of PI would be in about 3.5 ml of sweat. That's a lot
of sweat for me, unless I'm exercising.
I don't know much about the other compounds
mentioned in the study, but they are probably metabolites of -none. From what I've read here, they're not in any
of the pheromone products.
This study may not have much to do with sexual arousal. Notice
that the sweat they measured was produced with adrenaline. That means that it was "fear" sweat, which is usually
stinky stuff. Personally, I smell different when I'm afraid vs. exercising vs. aroused.
So, I don't really see how to translate this study to 'mones from bottles.
Hope this helps,
Laney
(biochemist but NOT sterol expert)
------------------------------------------------------------------
Actually, truth, I know you're joking about getting pheros from
elsewhere, but...
I wonder if phero effectiveness could also be due to the fact that
they let you "relocate" your armpits and groin to more interesting locations. I put my pheros in the hair, behind
the ears/neck, and wrists. Not exactly places you'd expect to find pubic hair. (Well, at least my own pubic hair. )
BTW, updating my math for the MW of andro___ puts it at .29mg/ml. Now this is based on me
taking the middle of the range (1) of 0-2 nmol/microliter. As I said before, I'd like to know what the distribution
was. If 90% of the test subjects were clocking in at 0.1 nmol/microliter, then our store-bought pheros are much more
potent that "average" sweat.
In reading the abstract, a couple points:
Androstenols were
present in very small amounts (<0.1 nmol/microliter) so your typical androstenol product here is probably running
about one or two orders of magnitude more potency -- or maybe more, read on.
The cited
potencies I did the math on were for apocrine sweat. It's clear that there's WAY more pheros here than in axillary
skin samples. Note that the 'nol levels in axillary skin were higher than in apocrine sweat for some of the
subjects, and the concentration was measured in picomol -- so the 'nol pheros sold here are ~ 10,000 to 100,000
times stronger than typical sweat from either apocrine or non-apocrine glands!
Also note
that the androstenone concentrations for non-induced sweating (aka everyday skin) were 2.5 picomol per cm2.
Now, this gets interesting...
2.5E-12 pmol/cm2 * 20000 cm2 = 5E-8
pmol
where 20000 cm2 = surface area of the body.
5E-8 * 290 g/mol = .0000154g, or
.0145 mg of 'none on your
body.
Now, I didn't make ANY of this math up, just following the numbers. What's the
magic dose I found from reviewing the hits here?
0.02mg, which, given the margin of error,
is pretty damn close to the above figure.
I wonder if we're just washing our own pheros
down the drain when we shower, then adding them back? In any case, it looks like the 'none figure is 0.015 mg, and
we're adding another 0.015, becoming twice the man, so to speak. Or maybe just a man who hasn't showered.
The mind boggles.
That's what I was saying (if i read
this right)....the concentration or per square inch is completely different, but the total about of none that
you have on your entire body is not completely different than the total level of synthetic we are
applying.
Is this right or am I reading this wrong?
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
Good question, bjf. I used to
wonder about that too.
DrSmellThis (creator of P H E R O S)
I don't think the chicks give a damn
about per sqare inch....seems pretty irrelavent
"An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest."
--Benjamin Franklin
That last post is very
interesting, but I wouldn't bank on it being accurate. You have to take into account the variation of the
concentration of pheromones on different areas of the body (assuming a constant distribution over the whole surface
of our skin is fairly crude).
But yeah I would say you are basically right (without researching the numbers
properly though). My best guess at this stage is that total amounts of pheromones on our bodies are nearly
comparable to what we apply (maybe 1 order of magnatude out), but concentration is way less and the actual pheromone
dispersal even less.
Ok so finally some numbers to go
on. It would make sense that you would not be humanly possible to have something like .05mg on none one your body as
then your representing something like 4 arnolds toghether. At this point it becomes unnatural and you smell like a
freak (subconciously probably/counciously u smell like piss, also bad) But what you're trying to project is the
best of your species, not some abnormality. Of course clothes and presonality matter, as youre trying ot be
congruent here, not some fake, which once again exibits abnormality/insecurity.
thatsOriginally Posted by Icehawk
where we have to find a dose that makes us seem more masculine but not overbearing like a testosterone raging wife
beater
There are lots of tricks you can pick up with experience, but I bet the biggest factor (especiallyOriginally Posted by Icehawk
for beginners) is fitness.
Guys that exercise regularly look better, feel better, carry less stress, exude more
natural confidence, have better skin, produce more natural testosterone and probably have a pretty decent pheromone
signature to begin with.
Give truth a chance.
Originally Posted by CptKipling
That's basically what I was saying... the amount we are applying has to be
somewhat comparable to the amount people give off naturally, or the risk of OD would not vary so much from person to
person.
Thanks for repeating it in a way that was easier to understand than what I was
saying.
Riley
That is important, that affects theOriginally Posted by bjf
concentration and amount of pheromones that reach the target.
Incidentally, this is why I have always diluted
mixes quite heavily. Same amount of pheromones over a larger surface area is more natural.
I think this is a point that was lost along the way... we're speaking of one group of known
chemical messengers, the 16-androstenes, as if they're the only substances that have important signaling functions.
(leaving the short chain fatty acid copulins aside)... however, we have some limited information about MHC proteins,
class I and II that are known to bind short peptide chains, "MHC class I molecules bind smailer antigenic peptides,
8-10 amino acid residues in length"... so the MHC molecules are much too big for evaporation, but it is quite
probably that short chain residues on the skin can have significant information value about what one is "looking
for" in a mate... the third, I believe highly important, almost unknown area are repulsion pheromones. These have
been well documented in insects. An ant painted with "dead ant pheromone" will be repeated turned on his back by a
group of worker ants and dumped at a safe distance from the nest, whereupon the bewildered worker ant will turn over
and head home to do his job, only to be rolled over once again and dropped off at the town dump. It does make
evolutionary sense to signal ill health to lessen contagion in a tribal group. Human schizophrenics, for example,
can have an apalling body odor (once you've smelled this you'll never forget it) that makes you want to get away
from them. When I've had a high fever my body odor has a foul reek that doesn't smell anything like my tee shirts
after a hard workout. High adrenaline will produce an unusual, acrid, rancid harsh odor. If we've been capable of
evolving sophisticated signaling mechanisms that indicate approachability, group solidarity, fertility, high
communication states, it seems equally logical that we have evolved signals that express health risks, mental
instability, avoidance. These may in fact be coupled with depression, so that a depressed person may produce an
avoidant messenger signal, that further isolates the depressed person, increasing the signal, in a vicious cycle.
Depression is known to correlate with lowered immune responses. It would seem reasonable that there is a complex
interplay between the immune system, hormonal conversions, emotional state, and social status, and especially today
with an excess of processed foods, diet where fats and fatty acids have been extensively chemically altered.
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