The Short Fat Guy Experiment

[Gegogi]

"Dark skinned black women

have always seemed to be attracted to me...and asian girls are straight up repulsed."

I'm speculating

you may have a naturally high output of 'none, especially since you're a former bodybuilder and have been working

out again. Probably you should avoid or go easy on 'none rich products like NPA/TE/PI. 'Nol infested products like

SOE are probably the best place to start.

I too suffered a divorce and have been dating a couple years but trying

to avoid serious commitments. I found the transition easy and, like Bel, looked at it as an opportunity and an

adventure. The extra life experience made me more comfortable with myself and confident with women than my college

days. I kept in shape and have always been a stylish dresser so I didn't have to remake myself. My main problem has

been staying away from "bad girls," e.g., married women on the prowl, strippers, and the like, and keeping my

emotions in check. They can really get away from you if you're not used to the powerful pull and urgency of new

love. You can do amazingly foolish things...

[bronzie]

My main problem

has been staying away from "bad girls," e.g., married women on the prowl, strippers, and the

like

Learn to detach like a buddist monk, have your fun, but approach these type of women as

commodities and objects, otherwise be ready for some real pain and suffering if you fall for them, they dont give a

f*** about you emotionally, so why should you about them. I am not a masoganist, and I respect all human biengs,

however, there are people that dont care about you and look at you only for gain, so treat them

accordingly.

There are decent amazing women out there, just be ready to sift through all the rubbish and dirt

to find the gems.

There is an age old saying, it goes something like this ; recite poetry to a poet, for

everyone else , be ready to draw your sword.