"Dark skinned black women

have always seemed to be attracted to me...and asian girls are straight up repulsed."
I'm speculating

you may have a naturally high output of 'none, especially since you're a former bodybuilder and have been working

out again. Probably you should avoid or go easy on 'none rich products like NPA/TE/PI. 'Nol infested products like

SOE are probably the best place to start.

I too suffered a divorce and have been dating a couple years but trying

to avoid serious commitments. I found the transition easy and, like Bel, looked at it as an opportunity and an

adventure. The extra life experience made me more comfortable with myself and confident with women than my college

days. I kept in shape and have always been a stylish dresser so I didn't have to remake myself. My main problem has

been staying away from "bad girls," e.g., married women on the prowl, strippers, and the like, and keeping my

emotions in check. They can really get away from you if you're not used to the powerful pull and urgency of new

love. You can do amazingly foolish things...