"Learn to detach like a

buddist monk, have your fun..."
Actually I've found my stride after a couple years of trial and

error. I have good social skills and no problem attracting nice women, I just wasn't use to the resulting strong

emotions, emotions I hadn't experienced for many years. I figured they didn't exist in me anymore (a school boy

thing), but such was not the case. So I learned to do the walk 'n talk but be like a stone Buddha inside. The trick

is to walk the line between not giving a crap and being sensitive enough to recognize a good thing when it bites you

in the ass. As young buck I was pretty good at it. After nearly 20 years of marriage I needed a quick course in the

school of hard knocks.