At first these stumbles

seem like simple clumsiness - and it may indeed just have been that... But after some time... I know at least I...

got so many of those reactions, that yu start considering the `mones have a part in it.
Anyhow you can't really

tell if that was a hit or not, but SOE does seem to be suited for you
And that confidence you mentioned

is a great added bonus with `mones.

Keep on experimenting - you're at the right path