Interesting remarks Rbt. I can't disagree really. Maybe its me but I've never warmed up to
learning "techniques". Its always been my thought that if you improve yourself in whatever aspects of life your can,
you'll naturally become a more attractive person. In particular, you'll become more attractive to the kind of
person you want to be with. For me, it goes far beyond just looks, but I've never dated an "ugly".
I have
to admit to a general disinterest in "scoring" for its own sake. I'm pretty sexually driven, but I've always found
more satisfaction in longer term and more well developed relationships. Maybe my disinterest in "hot babes" plays
along the grounds of a PUA's "technique", ie they'll want you because you don't want them. No matter. Then again,
this may be part of what you mean when you talk about "making it a natural part of you".
This is not a
criticism of those who's goals and methods are different from my own. Just a different take.
another
interjection...
cheers all
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