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Be careful as regards listening to what your \"friends\" have to say. I say this because a lot of time, if you\'re approaching ladies, doing what your pals don\'t have the balls to do, they will mess with your state and say negative things to get you back in the herd. If they are getting laid it\'s a different matter and do listen to them, but if their luck with women is no better than yours, block their neg. comments out or you\'ll stay exactly as you are right now.


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Though I agree with this, there are times when having friends around can help. It depends on your relationship with you buddies I guess. Herd mentality can be counter productive at times but at other times, it can be that little added boost. There are times when my friends and I often chided each other about a girl one of us sees and likes. There\'s the \"come on dude, go talk to her\" vs the \"I don\'t think you have it in you\" talk but really it\'s all in good fun.

Wome are masters at body language. Some realize it and use it, some don\'t. But they all project it and most can \"read it\" in a guy I think...almost like their sixth sense. *LOL* If you read a lot of the advice columns in various mens magazines (some of which are supposedly written by women) you\'ll usually see advice about \"reading her body language\".

I guess they\'re trying to tell us something. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img] [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]