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    I gotta put my 2 cents in here.

    I had a GF that was on the pill and her sex drive was too much for me. Everyday sex, I kid you not and when I

    couldn't help her she had this little vibrating massager to use on herself. She couldn't get enough. BTW this was

    way back without mones so I think the idea she couldn't get pregnant made her feel liberated or she was just a

    psycho for sex. I think my girl was maybe a special case. More mental sex drive than hormonal.

    Hmm my hormone

    studies is a bit dusty... if I am correct the pill is progestrogen which makes the girl develop the muccous membrane

    covering the uterus walls at extreme layers preventing the zygote from attaching itself to the walls. since LH is

    the opposite of FSH estrogen makes em horny and LH makes em mommies, yeah they would be less sex drive and more

    wanting to smell flowers and walk on beaches and take care of loving creatures. And I think I too am correct that in

    that state if you suck on their nipples long enough like wks, they will produce milk. I remember hearing it makes

    their boobs bigger since I guess the mamari glands are being filled. just the oxitocina( sorry I only remember the

    spanish term) is not present to contract the mamaries but I guess with a little help they will secrete milk...wow

    hormones are fun!

    So from my POV, I see this as maybe a good thing. Since most girl will take pills if they are

    already in a relationship, long-term that is. I know many girls do not like taking it but since they are in a

    relationship with lots of sex, they don't want to make a mistake so prevent it all together with the pill. So our

    mones is only pulling in girls that are not getting much sex and are fertile and horny. Sounds good to me.

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    Actually, I myself have a

    g/f on the pills and everytime we meet she wants & gets sex. We're together for about 2 months and only once have

    we met and not made love\sex...
    And that was the first time we went to a movie so I wouldn't even count

    that.
    The `mones dO drive her crazy & she says I opened up a VERY horney & open-minded side of her.
    But I'm still

    curious to know what the scientific side of it all is... Are the pills (scientificaly) supposed to make it harder on

    her to recieve the `mones and be affected by them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tenaciousBLADE View Post
    But

    I'm still curious to know what the scientific side of it all is... Are the pills (scientificaly) supposed to make

    it harder on her to recieve the `mones and be affected by them?
    The answer to your question is:

    Yes! However, this thread is another example of why I quit posting anything besides research-oriented information.

    And here, even when it started with research, discussion took it to individual opinions, which are great for the

    individuals to whom they apply, and great for some people who want to discuss opinions. I'll opt out of further

    discussion of opinions and continue to pursue the science.

    James V. Kohl
    author/creator: The Scent of

    Eros

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    Science is great and it

    gives the answers we were looking for, but sometimes it helps to add an explenation that is a bit more readable by

    people who are somewhat less experienced with the scientific terms. An explenation such as the simple "Yes!" you

    just gave.
    People should be free to give their own opinions based on their experience - Science is great, but

    although it strives to - it is not yet complete
    Please don't quit giving your own experience. Specially being

    it a more profound one in scientific terms
    The fact that other people post their own ideas & views doesn't take

    back from your replies nor theirs'... Especially taking into account that your product is one of my 3 top favorites


    Anyway what I'm trying to say is: It wasn't that discussion took it to individual opinions, but rather

    that the science was put into a too-sophisticated lenguage (at least in my standarts). That simple yes was - though

    quite a sad thing to hear - all the answer I was lacking
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    Quote Originally Posted by tenaciousBLADE View Post
    Science is great and it gives the answers we were looking for, but

    sometimes it helps to add an explenation that is a bit more readable by people who are somewhat less experienced

    with the scientific terms. An explenation such as the simple "Yes!" you just gave.
    People should be free to give

    their own opinions based on their experience - Science is great, but although it strives to - it is not yet complete


    Please don't quit giving your own experience. Specially being it a more profound one in scientific terms


    The fact that other people post their own ideas & views doesn't take back from your replies nor theirs'...

    Especially taking into account that your product is one of my 3 top favorites
    Anyway what I'm trying to

    say is: It wasn't that discussion took it to individual opinions, but rather that the science was put into a

    too-sophisticated lenguage (at least in my standarts). That simple yes was - though quite a sad thing to hear - all

    the answer I was lacking
    Ive noticed that Essence of Alpha Male has ended

    up in the Pheromone Discussion area, so we must therefore assume that is was purposefully placed here to get

    attention and feedback comments from all or anyone wishing to contribute their own input regarding the material

    posted up as the thread starter.


    It would be obvious that if a poster did not wish to communicate in a general and normal

    manner with other individuals on the forum with respect to their presentations of opinions posted then they would

    have the option of keeping their statements confined to another more suitable area that may facilitate their needs

    more adequately.


    So it is thankfully appreciated that the God of science has thrown us a crumb of scientific

    material, that hopefully we may digest.




    And therefore become wise and gain an understanding of the subject which is of

    an interest, and also a possable benefit to most of us.
    I AM. Out of my mind .... .... ....

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    lol.. nicely and

    interestingly put

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    Quote Originally Posted by tenaciousBLADE View Post
    lol.. nicely and interestingly put
    I only

    thought it would be obviously expected that one should receive questions to a post he had posted on a forum of this

    nature.


    Otherwise the information would have been more suited

    to a scientific journal ect........ Eg to be veiwed disected and understood by educated academic and or scientific

    minded individuals.


    I am thankfull that the Gentleman

    does dispense of his valuable time to give us the information that he contributes, but i for one being just a normal

    type BUFFOON would have some difficulty in understanding the material and i really appreciate the feedback given

    when i see other members asking for clarification on the posted material at times., and this usually leads me to

    understand the scientific wording and meanings of the original post.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jvkohl View Post
    even

    when it started with research, discussion took it to individual opinions, which are great for the individuals to

    whom they apply, and great for some people who want to discuss opinions. I'll opt out of further discussion of

    opinions and continue to pursue the science.

    James V. Kohl
    author/creator: The Scent of Eros


    James-

    I respect you a lot, I am a huge fan of SOE, and your input to this forum has clearly been invaluable

    over the years.

    Having said that, I must say your response is confusing to me, because it seems dismissive and

    self-righteous. I was trained as a scientist too (molecular biology)-- worked at Cold Spring Harbor Lab at one point

    in fact. And I think it is absurd to believe that science does not include opinions. Is that what you were trying to

    say?

    Scientists are some of the most opinionated, arguementative people I've met. There is constant debate in

    scientific journals based on opinion. Interpretation of data and results always involves judgment and opinion at

    some level. Science is not pure or objective. Science is a human paradigm, and humans are by nature subjective.



    And no less so when you are dealing with the effects of chemicals on human behvior. This is anything but

    objective. Even randomized, double-blind studies are subject to interpretation. The conclusions of any research are

    never fact, but are the opinion of the researcher--theoretically they are based on pure logic, but if that were the

    case we wouldn't have so much debate in every field of science.

    We could take this into a whole debate over

    epistemology (how we know what we know), but actually I don't even think we were giving opinions anyway. We were

    describing anecdotal evidence that seems to contradict the science you were sharing, and we were simply asking how

    you might explain this anecdotal evidence in light of the research.

    The fact is that NOT ALL women lose their

    sex drive when they lose their cycle, so we were curious how that fits into the science you are trying to share. I

    don't think that is expressing opinion so much as trying to understand how the sophisticated study you were sharing

    fits in with other observations.

    Respectfully,

    -CAt

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    Quote Originally Posted by CAtriathlete View Post
    James-
    I think it is absurd to believe that science does not include opinions. Is

    that what you were trying to say?-CAt
    I specified "individual" opinions, which are based on anecdotal

    (i.e., subjective) evidence. In any case, your points are well-taken. At least you know about epistemology. When I

    continue to discuss the science, people (see terry0400-40) make comments that I find offensive: "In conclusion i can

    only add that we are so privileged to actually have a being of this magnificient magnitude in our prescence and it

    is only natural to want to reach out and touch the hem of his garment in sweet communion...."



    Quote Originally Posted by CAtriathlete View Post
    We could take this into a whole debate over epistemology (how we know what we

    know), but actually I don't even think we were giving opinions anyway.

    We were describing anecdotal evidence

    that seems to contradict the science you were sharing, and we were simply asking how you might explain this

    anecdotal evidence in light of the research.-CAt
    "Seems to contradict" is the key issue. If people

    were more interested in learning about the science, they would find no contradictions--other than in their own

    anecdotes. They might then try to scientifically establish why these contradictions exist (in their world, and often

    in others).

    Quote Originally Posted by CAtriathlete View Post
    The fact is that NOT ALL women lose their sex drive when they lose

    their cycle, so we were curious how that fits into the science you are trying to share. I don't think that is

    expressing opinion so much as trying to understand how the sophisticated study you were sharing fits in with other

    observations.-CAt
    A woman whose life-long experience with pheromones has conditioned her sexual

    response cycle very positively, is not nearly as likely to lose her hormone-dependent sex drive. In fact, due to the

    estrogen decline, the effects of testosterone may bee "unmasked" in some cases leading to increased sex drive. But,

    as you can probably tell, this is a scientific explanation, not merely an individual opinion based on someone's

    anecdotal experience.

    And, given the ridicule I've experienced from anonymous members of this Forum, you can

    also probably tell why I care less and less about what people think or say--compared to non-anonymous researchers

    with whom I regularly correspond. I don't think that is so much an issue of my ego, as it is how I choose to spend

    my productive time.

    I don't mind spending time responding to comments like yours, but there are too many

    people on this Forum who are not the least bit interested in the science of human pheromones.

    James V.

    Kohl
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    The there are those of us that

    read every scientific post and may ask an occasional question but rarely venture an opinion because we realize we

    aren't qualified. Question should always be voiced, even (especially) from us laymen. It helps us better understand

    the issues and concepts. Random babble is another thing and I can understand why that would upset any serious

    poster.

    There are all kinds of people on any public forum. But I think the majority feel they benefit from the

    scientific posts, even if we don't feel we know enough to have an opinion.
    To compel a man to subsidize with his taxes the propagation of ideas which he disbelieves and abhors is sinful and tyrannical.

    Thomas Jefferson

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    Quote Originally Posted by jvkohl View Post
    When I

    continue to discuss the science, people (see terry0400-40) make comments that I find offensive: "In conclusion i can

    only add that we are so privileged to actually have a being of this magnificient magnitude in our prescence and it

    is only natural to want to reach out and touch the hem of his garment in sweet communion...."
    James, I

    hate to mention this, but, I think Terry was giving you a complement, in his own odd way.
    Freedom begins when you tell Mrs. Grundy to go fly a kite.
    --Lazarus Long

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    Quote Originally Posted by jvkohl View Post
    I specified "individual" opinions, which are based on anecdotal (i.e., subjective) evidence.

    In any case, your points are well-taken. At least you know about epistemology. When I continue to discuss the

    science, people (see terry0400-40) make comments that I find offensive: "In conclusion i can only add that we are so

    privileged to actually have a being of this magnificient magnitude in our prescence and it is only natural to want

    to reach out and touch the hem of his garment in sweet communion...."



    "Seems to contradict" is the key

    issue. If people were more interested in learning about the science, they would find no contradictions--other than

    in their own anecdotes. They might then try to scientifically establish why these contradictions exist (in their

    world, and often in others).



    A woman whose life-long experience with pheromones has conditioned her sexual

    response cycle very positively, is not nearly as likely to lose her hormone-dependent sex drive. In fact, due to the

    estrogen decline, the effects of testosterone may bee "unmasked" in some cases leading to increased sex drive. But,

    as you can probably tell, this is a scientific explanation, not merely an individual opinion based on someone's

    anecdotal experience.

    And, given the ridicule I've experienced from anonymous members of this Forum, you can

    also probably tell why I care less and less about what people think or say--compared to non-anonymous researchers

    with whom I regularly correspond. I don't think that is so much an issue of my ego, as it is how I choose to spend

    my productive time.

    I don't mind spending time responding to comments like yours, but there are too many people

    on this Forum who are not the least bit interested in the science of human pheromones.

    James V.

    Kohl
    author/creator: The Scent of Eros
    PLZ dont be offended by me Big Guy

    JV , Im just spraying up a little chalk dust talk, And i am one of those who probably are not so interested in the

    hard nosed science of Pheromone research, ha ga ga, But i do enjoy the effects of applying a substance and observing

    some of the magic that it can add to a scene.




    But you are a good bloke i would say,
    And you have your way of expressing your self, I amoungst others probably just reacting a little

    as we like to see more of you, and probably un be known to us would like to share closer and some warm rapport with

    you.


    And i

    sure can be a stupid headed little ninny sometimes as all can plainly see,

    But in heart wish you well with peace and prosperity. in truth.
    I AM. Out of my mind .... .... ....

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    Red face Acceptance is the bridge between us. Let us all help build it for one another.

    First thing's first...

    Originally Posted by

    Mtnjim:
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by jvkohl

    [IMG]http://www.pherolibrary.com/forum/image

    s/buttons/viewpost.gif[/IMG]

    When I continue to discuss the science, people (see terry0400-40) make

    comments that I find offensive: "In conclusion i can only add that we are so privileged to actually have a being of

    this magnificient magnitude in our prescence and it is only natural to want to reach out and touch the hem of his

    garment in sweet communion...."
    James, I hate to mention this, but, I think Terry was giving you a

    complement, in his own odd way.
    I totally agree. In fact I based my own

    reply...
    Originally Posted by tenaciousBLADE

    [IMG]http://www.pherolibrary.com/forum/image

    s/buttons/viewpost.gif[/IMG]

    lol.. nicely and interestingly put
    on that

    exact notion. So jvkohl... take it easy . I'm pretty sure we all here have the fullest respect for

    your input. I know I do... furthermore, I look forward to it everytime


    Second...
    Science,

    at leat such high level science as how pheromones work (and make no mistake of it: I honestly view this type of

    science as a very high-level one), is not reachable for anyone and takes a lot of effort to learn & study (you

    should know ). Some people cannot afford the time\money or patience to actually go and study that science

    thoroughly. You said:
    Originally Posted by jvkohl

    [IMG]http://www.pherolibrary.com/forum/image

    s/buttons/viewpost.gif[/IMG]

    If people were more interested in learning about the science, they would find

    no contradictions--other than in their own anecdotes. They might then try to scientifically establish why these

    contradictions exist (in their world, and often in others).
    Some peoples' way of learning about science

    such as this particular one, is to read and post in forums such as this. I'm sure you can understand that, right?


    Including myself in that group of people, i can say, that we do learn alot from your posts... Yet it may

    take some of us some time to realize or fully understand what your answers mean exactly; considering that we do not

    have the jargon nor the experience with such complexed and sometimes never-before-heared (through our ears at least)

    scientific lingo.

    I can only speak for myself, however I don't think anyone here had any intension of insulting

    you in any way
    Granted, sometimes you might sound\seem\feel a little "dismissive and self-righteous"...

    because it seems as if you only reply to people with the scentific background... as if the lot of us who hasn't

    learned on that specific field has no right to talk with you or earn your respect\experience\answers. But my guess

    is that you might think of our replies in the same manner sometimes... and that the fact that we reply in a lingo

    that is a bit weak may feel insulting to you. Well please take these next few words not as an insult, but as a

    compliment... `coz that is honestly the way I mean them:
    Some of us venture our opinions out of curiosity. Science

    is not defenent and that is exactly the reason it still exists as a developping proccess... to answer the questions

    it raises up, and fill the curiosity of human nature. I can't speak for others yet I'm pretty sure most here would

    agree with me (no offense anyone)... I am curious and when I don't understand an answer I keep on asking the

    question and try to explain my question a bit more to the detail. The answer wasn't clear to me... up until the

    very point you said "Yes". In no way should it be offensieve to you that a simple word was needed.

    What I'm

    trying to say, jvkohl, is simply (and sincerely):
    Don't be offended by our ignorance. Just try to help us

    through it instead
    `Coz honestly... You're one of the most experienced people on the forums, and as such -

    you're one we can learn from; but for that to happen you have to let us. So why threat to quit posting, when you

    can just teach us some valuable knowledge about your field insted?

    Well, I trully hope I got at

    least SOME of the situation right and that my words helped in some way what so ever. `Coz otherwise I've just made

    a big fool of myself

    JV, people have made some respectable efforts with their words to try and make you

    understand that we mean no harm. Please... make that worthwhile and keep on posting your knowledge mate
    It's

    all for a good edjucative pupose

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